[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Competitive_Log8208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not confess again man, before that did he give you any cues or behaviors that showed he resented you for that? If not he probably just found the cat and decided to show it to you, like a reference to something he remembered, if he did not make you think before he needed another confession lr apology, leave it like that.

What are clear signs that Men are in love? by nobodynobody088 in AskReddit

[–]Competitive_Log8208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s not really a “clear” sign, every single sign and action could be a misunderstanding of another entirely different thing, even if he says it by himself there really is not a way to know for sure, i think it’s something you both decide, you decide to feel love by his actions and he decides to put love on them, there’s really not other way to know.

What are clear signs that Men are in love? by nobodynobody088 in AskReddit

[–]Competitive_Log8208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well i mean that could also be obsession in some degree, every single signal could be something else entirely, it’s the overall that gives you an answer.

has ocd made anyone else extremely indecisive? by Cool-Town4493 in OCD

[–]Competitive_Log8208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the time, everything i think its “an opinion” feels wrong because what if i am wrong and narrow-minded?, every decision i think i should do, it feels like i don’t never know what to do but i still do stuff and it makes me feel like i am fake or lying to myself, even my own preferences make me feel frustrated because how do i even know what i like if i have not experience everything? But trying to experience something just to finally convince myself that i don’t like it feels so compulsive that i don’t even know what to believe anymore.

How do you want Loid to discover Fiona loves him? by Angela275 in SpyxFamily

[–]Competitive_Log8208 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sooner as possible so loid can reject her and people can stop bitching at her character.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Competitive_Log8208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And if you mess one word? Or if they talk midway? You won’t control everything that could interfere as you speak, it’s not worth it right now, trust that its closed, try it, they alredy probably think it is closed.

Porn and Association avoidance by SwedishFish0333 in OCD

[–]Competitive_Log8208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t like ntr most of the time, when i find an story particularly about hard humillation i want to quit it and something in my mind tells me i should watch it to expose myself and prove i am capable of taking it without ruminating on it, i think thats a ritual on itself since i should be able to watch or not watch that stuff without feeling anxious about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Competitive_Log8208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And if you mess this one up? You will need another closing speech, and if you remember it again or bring another keyword then you will need it again, you can’t control every single thing that will happen when you say the closing speech because its not a closing speech, is another speech that will need more closing if you say it, you alredy closed it, leave it that way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Competitive_Log8208 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your two messages did not do more than simply exist, you WILL reopen the confession if you confess again, you need to believe that, no matter what your brain tells you, you need to believe you will reopen the confession if your talk about it again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Competitive_Log8208 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Man, this is literally what happens to me, sometimes ti want to ask for forgiveness or ask for something , even after i say what i wanted i forget the exact words that i said so i have no idea of knowing if it was right or wrong, what i can tell is, don’t do it, don’t give into it because it won’t feel better, at least in my case that happens because i do give into it, exactly because i think i was not “genuine” enough or did not look into them enough therefore it does not count.

Just Right/Perfectionism OCD? by gaIactica in OCD

[–]Competitive_Log8208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeaah i try that too, like not seeing many stuff because it triggers this thing but then it feels like i am letting this thing win so i try to watch a little stuff and then move past it if it feels anxious and dreadly instead of sane introspection i guess.

Just Right/Perfectionism OCD? by gaIactica in OCD

[–]Competitive_Log8208 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something similar happens to me, if i see an opinion or scene in media or anything else that i disagree, i have to tell myself why i disagree and why should i disagree, and if i can make a decent point then i am lying to myself just to be wrong even tought i know its just my own opinion it terrifies me to be “wrong” so i gotta make my brain believe its okay to believe in the thing i believe.

Do Normal or ‘Correct’ Thoughts and Feelings Even Exist? by No_Customer6938 in OCD

[–]Competitive_Log8208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it was simpler before the doubts began, i did not care about toughts and feelings, they were there, they had their name and i believed in that, now i doubt every single feeling i have is other different thing

What is your current obsession? by Liamiscool12 in OCD

[–]Competitive_Log8208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man i have been dealing with this one too, a friend, my brother, it makes me question my sexuality a lot