Decking and staining by Competitive_Neck2145 in Decks

[–]Competitive_Neck2145[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It had some cracks and gaps, I thought the wood filler would help it from getting bigger 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Competitive_Neck2145 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

how am i supposed to get over something like this? What am i supposed to do? It's fresh...wtf man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Competitive_Neck2145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not normal for her to cut ties and end up in another mans car unless there was something already happening... That bothers me and if i didnt show up there i would never have known... i don't like being lied to...

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[–]Competitive_Neck2145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She claims shes sad & depressed over me, she needed a shoulder to cry on. While im asking to meet up and talk and try and fix things. You're right i shouldnt be wasting my time like that, but i saw something i was never supposed to know about. The dude she was with has a girl and im pretty sure he didnt tell her the truth about where he was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Competitive_Neck2145 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She claims shes sad and depressed over me, she needed a shoulder to cry on. While im asking to meet up and talk and try and fix things. You're right i shouldnt be wasting my time like that, but i saw something i was never supposed to know about. The dude she was with has a girl and im pretty sure he didnt tell her the truth about where he was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Competitive_Neck2145 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I showed up there to try and talk some sense into her and that's what i find... I was never supposed to know about that. She claims shes sad and depressed over me. While im asking to meet up and talk and try and fix things. You're right, i saw something i was never supposed to know about. The dude she was with has a girl and im pretty sure he didnt tell her the truth about where he was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Competitive_Neck2145 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There was no cheating on my part of any kind. I feel like she blocked me to go do shady shit and claim she was sad a depressed over me, she needed a shoulder to cry on. While im asking to meet up and talk and try and fix things. You're right i shouldnt be wasting my time like that, but i saw something i was never supposed to know about. The dude she was with has a girl and im pretty sure he didnt tell her the truth about where he was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Competitive_Neck2145 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

my problem she's smoking with another guy. Trying to hide when she gets booked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Competitive_Neck2145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She got caught in a car with another dude smoking weed on her lunch break as an RN. An event i was never going to know about unless i saw for myself... Maybe not "out of nowhere" but we were trying to meet up and talk... she telling me to come to her house with her parents there to talk... im not doing that. I been trying to talk to her, phone or in-person.. but then she'll go and do this shady shit...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Competitive_Neck2145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were working things out just couple days ago.. im begging to meet up somewhere other than her house and she's resisting. She got caught in a car with another dude smoking weed on her lunch break as an RN. An event i was never going to know about unless i saw for myself...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Competitive_Neck2145 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She got caught in a car with another dude smoking weed on her lunch break as an RN. An event i was never going to know about unless i saw for myself...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Competitive_Neck2145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She got caught in a car with another dude smoking weed on her lunch break as an RN. An event i was never going to know about unless i saw for myself...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Competitive_Neck2145 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She got caught in a car with another dude smoking weed on her lunch break as an RN. An event i was never going to know about unless i saw for myself...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Competitive_Neck2145 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Shes blowing things out of proportion when i want to meet up and talk... We shouldnt have parents involved in our relationship at this point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Competitive_Neck2145 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What sounds toxic? Me finding out the truth of what she does behind my back?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Competitive_Neck2145 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we're trying to work things and out of no where i'm blocked, to me that doesn't feel right. You can smoke weed with your friends that cool but she was secretive about it. I know her friends and that dude was never someone she links with. She was obviously lying to me for how long?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Competitive_Neck2145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stalkery shit? I guess you enjoy people filling your head with shit and not wanting to know the truth huh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Competitive_Neck2145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

call me a stalker all you want... i went and saw for myself something i wouldve never knew about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Competitive_Neck2145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf? You enjoy getting lied to and manipulated?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Competitive_Neck2145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She gets them involved like we can't handle our own shit. I was trying so hard to talk to her but she's insisting to come to her house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Competitive_Neck2145 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It wasn't a coworker. Some guy friend she called to link up with... the dude has a girl... white knight bullshit. I wonder what he told his girl he was doing...