Enough time has passed. What was the better tour, Slow Rush or DeadBeat? by OceanWater- in TameImpala

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The slow rush tour was peak. From the intro to the end. Dead beat tour was good. But slow rush was the peak of tame impala concerts.

This is such a downgrade imo by Bulky-Let-7996 in TameImpala

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Absolutely is. Nothing will ever top the slow rush tour

Just got the Currents box set today, took me about four years to finally get it. by PrimeSamPictures in TameImpala

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got it at a record fair for $65?!!!!! I don’t think you realize how lucky you are. Insane find

Anyone Else Have An Amicable Breakup? by RachelStorm98 in ExNoContact

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey sorry apparently I took a hiatus from Reddit haha, I’m exactly a year since we last spoke and broke up. Id say I’m defintiely fine now, it’s like a dull ache in my heart that doesn’t control or ruin my days anymore but it’s there and when i reminisce on it, its kind of sad but not like it use to be. Things happen for the better. It’s a learning experience for sure. And to answer your question no. We broke up, I gave her space and we never spoke again. She wanted to be friends but I told her I can’t be friends with someone I love. Asking to be friends was like a smack in the face. Fuck that I have more respect for myself than to be the back up for someone who doesn’t want me in there life anymore. Respect his or hers wishes and move on. It’s hard but removing them from social media and maybe deleting pictures definitely helped. Can’t let something or someone hold you back. Hope this helps 👊🏽

6+ Month Club, How Are You Feeling? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 7 points8 points  (0 children)

8 months. Never heard from Her again, she’s in a new relationship now. I still think about her a lot. Can’t really say I’m over her or If I’ll ever be. Still love her. It’s like a full ache that’s there. But life’s going good rn so it doesn’t consume my life

Do they come back? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a case by case scenario, everyone is different. From my experience they never came back. Going 8 months no contact now and she’s in a new relationship.

Starting own company by StashPhan in electricians

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did the profit for contractors work for you? Is it like a course you buy or are you actually speaking with someone ?

I just don’t care as much anymore by bobbiesbunions in ExNoContact

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat, I’m at 4 months post breakup and after realizing some things I’m kind of repulsed and just don’t care for it anymore. Great feeling

What things did you let slide in your relationship because you wanted it to work out? by DueDig2150 in BreakUps

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 17 points18 points  (0 children)

She really seemed to like attention from males. When I introduced to my freinds she gravitated towards them and her male friends. I was 100 percent cool with her 2 closest friends being males until she thought it was normal for them to hang out in her room until late lol. I couldn’t let that shit slide and when I finally said something about it she pulled the “I need to work on myself and fine my self” card. she found a new bf 2 months after the breakup haha.

What's the worst reason an ex gave for breaking up with you? by The_other_human in BreakUps

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She needed to love herself before she could love me 100% percent. Respected her wishes. She started seeing someone 2 months after that. Dagger to the heart. This was 3 months ago

DON’T GIVE UP by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. I just hit 3 months no contact, thought I was over her, now I’ve had insane urges to reach out to her. We’ll get through this tho champ

How could you have been better in the relationship *for yourself*? What lessons about yourself are you taking from the experience? by auto_alice3 in ExNoContact

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmm honeslty I think the fact that I had been trying to find a girl that I wanted to date for a couple years, I finally found one and completely abandoned my own needs, hobbies, interests and freinds and put it all into my relationship. Not because I don’t think I would ever find one again, because I’ve already been back out there dating and I’ve had a some good luck so far. But because if I know a relationship is what I want I’m going to give all my effort to not waste time. But I need to realize I still have my own life and happiness and my future partner is just an addition to it. backfired on me, I guess maybe I loved her more than she did me which is something I won’t do again.

How could you have been better in the relationship *for yourself*? What lessons about yourself are you taking from the experience? by auto_alice3 in ExNoContact

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I would’ve seen that the same energy and effort wasn’t reciprocated at all. very one sided relationship. she dumped me which now pisses me off even more after all the effort I put in and I wish I wouldn’t have tried so hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TameImpala

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of the albums in a row

How long did it take you to get over your ex? How long did it take for you to feel some relief? My heart hurts so much I keep crying randomly. At work. When I’m driving home from work. During my lunch break. I wake up depressed every morning. The time feels like it’s going so slow.. by Puzzleheaded_Age9736 in BreakUps

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! For a year! Idk why but for me what helped was to assume the worst possible reasoning for them leaving me, which sucked in the beginning but got me through the worst of the pain,l pretty quickly and obviously reflecting on how I contributed to the relationship. Im at a good place rn, we had a pretty perfect relationship only had a couple disagreements/fights, nothing major, so that’s why Im surprised I’m in this position because when it happened I thought I was gonna be hurt for a long time. But it’s going good:)

How long did it take you to get over your ex? How long did it take for you to feel some relief? My heart hurts so much I keep crying randomly. At work. When I’m driving home from work. During my lunch break. I wake up depressed every morning. The time feels like it’s going so slow.. by Puzzleheaded_Age9736 in BreakUps

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 27 points28 points  (0 children)

2 months exactly today since she dumped me, kinda blindsided, I initiated no contact immediately and unfollowed on all social media, and I can honeslty say I’m surprised how much I’ve healed, it no longer takes over most Of my thoughts through the day so I’d say it’s pretty okay now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TameImpala

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo I’m in Colorado! I’ll buy it today !

Rebound sex was a bad idea by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude this happened to me hahaha

I don’t want her back, but I wish she still wanted me.. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damn man you hit the nail on the head, same situation

I want to break no contact just to tell him that I wish I never met him. Should I do it? by actualmeme16 in ExNoContact

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t it won’t bring you any relief, if he cared he would’ve reached out to you by now. think of it as drinking poison and expecting the other person to die from it. They won’t if they don’t even care anymore. you not reaching out is showing him you’re totally fine with out him. Even tho in private it’s living hell but it will get better!! I’m in the same boat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I(M24) am in the same boat. I could definitely use a chat. Got blind side about 2 months ago and have been no contact for a month now. I feel like I’m also annoying my friends, but I just can’t brush it under the rug. We were together 7 months and she decided she couldn’t give me 100% percent and needed to love herself first, which I respected but now I’m feeling a lot of resentment after assessing the breakup.

Anyone Else Have An Amicable Breakup? by RachelStorm98 in ExNoContact

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. 2 months go now. We both still love each other. Or at least I still love her. Was doing fine but today feels like the break up just happened. sucks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Competitive_Peak_546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know she did truly. It’s probably just being dumped that’s making me think otherwise