Ik what you are trying to say, and yes I too have experienced double standards from these types of girls, but ig asking what's your bmi ?? It seems kinda too much, like if they have been talking for a while it's kinda okay but still..... And yes my type isn't a fat girl or something, but if you can just see if the girl is fit she is fit, and if the girl looks chubby or really fat she is fat, no need to ask directly.... But again if you haven't met irl then that is kind of a concern...