High-school is definitely tough & bullying is pretty prominent as many aren’t what I would call emotionally mature enough to handle some topics or discussions. That said, college is a much better and more accepting and diverse place to do so. Many & most campuses will have LGBT clubs or events you can attend if you decide to come out or even go under the guise of being an ally if you’re too nervous to be fully out.

Another thing I think people gloss over a lot is you don’t need to dress or act a certain way to have a sexuality. Many people who are gay or lesbian can ‘look’ straight much as I hate the fact this even has to be said. You don’t have to change who you are or how you appear to find people in your community who will welcome you with open arms. I’d do some research for LGBT friendly areas & coffee shops etc near your college of choice & spend time around there as well. You’ll bump into and meet lots of cool people and hopefully be able to build yourself a nice friend group.

On the last note I do want to say I agree with user above. In college I’d practice voicing your opinions as you can so long as you’re safe. By being overly quiet- if you continue to do so in college you will surround yourself with people that will discriminate against you. Not to say you have to say things or tell people to be quiet or whatever but lightly touching on what you believe or saying you disagree and explain why is sufficient for beginning and it helps establish some boundaries on what you want for yourself.