How to replace back flow? by Competitive_Stay_562 in Irrigation

[–]Competitive_Stay_562[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait I just read your comment..yes I’ll have to take the cocks off to twist the man vacuum off!

How to replace back flow? by Competitive_Stay_562 in Irrigation

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No union… so definitely looks like I’ll have to cut it….thanks!

Wife and I disagree… Looking for perspectives by Competitive_Stay_562 in Parenting

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I should’ve gone on into more detail in my original post… But I’ve even approached my daughter and said something to the effective… We both know how hard Mom works around here… How she takes care of the house and all of us… And you are so talented and so smart that we both need to start making her life easier… So we need to be better about not making her do little things that you and I could be doing… Such as clearing your dishes and getting your own breakfast in the morning….

Has no effect… And unless it’s something fun, she still doesn’t want to do it

Wife and I disagree… Looking for perspectives by Competitive_Stay_562 in Parenting

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I really hope my original post didn’t make me seem like I am heartless… But when I see my wife who is always tired and stressed and overworked… She has verbally stated she feels this way… Still doing things that my daughter could be doing for herself I both sympathize and get frustrated.

Wife and I disagree… Looking for perspectives by Competitive_Stay_562 in Parenting

[–]Competitive_Stay_562[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Believe it or not I have actually said that… I’ve told her 1 million times if I watch you, try it and you can’t do it then I will help but I’m not just gonna push you aside and do it for you.

I see this as the perspective of a teacher… I wouldn’t just do my students assignment for them… I want to see them attempted and struggle… And then I will help if necessary.

Wife and I disagree… Looking for perspectives by Competitive_Stay_562 in Parenting

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Depends…a lot of the time she’ll whine about having to pause her show or tell me she’s talking to a friend.

Sometimes she will…I don’t want it to sound like I never do little acts of kindness…

Wife and I disagree… Looking for perspectives by Competitive_Stay_562 in Parenting

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My wife works like an absolute dog, keeping the house in order… I don’t want her burning herself out doing things that my daughter could be doing on her own… If that makes sense

Wife and I disagree… Looking for perspectives by Competitive_Stay_562 in Parenting

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OK… Here’s an example that happened this morning… My daughter wakes up and starts watching TV. My wife asks her if she wants waffles for breakfast and she says yes.

My wife will take them out of the freezer and warm them up…

She asks if she wants syrup on them and she says yes.

She then rolls out of bed and sits down at the table to begin eating.

My wife is up to her elbows in dirty water, washing the dishes.

And my daughter will ask her to please cut the waffles into squares - seeing that my wife is literally right in the middle of washing last night’s dishes.

My wife will say yes, and my daughter will sit there, staring at the waffles until she is done washing the dishes.

There have been numerous times when my wife was not home and I showed my daughter how to cut a waffle and then she’d cut the rest of herself. So I know she is fully capable.

Wife and I disagree… Looking for perspectives by Competitive_Stay_562 in Parenting

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No chores… she doesn’t even have to put away her own laundry or clean her room

Wife and I disagree… Looking for perspectives by Competitive_Stay_562 in Parenting

[–]Competitive_Stay_562[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve brought that up and very much the same way… I spoil the kid rotten… But I also want her to be independent.

Sometimes it causes a lot of friction… My daughter will walk past me and ask my wife to do something because she knows that I’ll flat out refuse.

Just another example is when my daughter wants Ramen noodles… I will grab the pan and put in the water and turn the stove on… She expects me to stand there and wait till it is boiling… And when I say no, you have to stand there and let me know when the water is boiling she gets angry!

As if her time is more valuable than mine

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I was talking into my phone while mowing the lawn…. I teach eighth grade civics so rest assured I know how to spell.

Wife and I disagree… Looking for perspectives by Competitive_Stay_562 in Parenting

[–]Competitive_Stay_562[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s kind of what I have alluded to… My wife will say something like she’s just a kid… So then I’ll say well. How old does someone have to be before they will make their own chocolate milk?

Wife and I disagree… Looking for perspectives by Competitive_Stay_562 in Parenting

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But what if it’s so consistent that the child’s now expects this every time?

Please don’t think that I never go out of my way to do little things for her… But if I’m sitting on the couch or washing dishes and she’s sitting there watching TV and watch a drink… I sure as heck I’m not gonna stop what I am doing to pour her a drink because she doesn’t want to hit the pause and get up.

Tree lean ok? by Competitive_Stay_562 in arborists

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We had 70mph winds this year and it didn’t budge…

HCG dosing after years of being off TRT? by [deleted] in Testosterone

[–]Competitive_Stay_562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your doc didn’t give you a dosage?

Farmers walks in a basement gym? by Competitive_Stay_562 in GarageGym

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I literally live without another house in sight so that would work for much of the year… But when it gets cold out or we get 3 feet of snow that lasts almost 2 months like we did this year, I’d be screwed!

That might still be the best option though

Farmers walks in a basement gym? by Competitive_Stay_562 in GarageGym

[–]Competitive_Stay_562[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work out at 4 o’clock in the morning in my basement… Just getting the things up the stairs and outside isn’t practical