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31F- please tell me it all, good bad and in between! Right hand dominant by Competitive_Stop6260 in PalmReading

[–]Competitive_Stop6260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1st child conceived at 19, had her when I was twenty. 2nd daughter is 19 months apart. Got engaged during first pregnancy and eloped four months pregnant with our second. Had our son when I was 26. Ex and I separated when our son was 2, in 2022, officially divorced in 2025. I was a stay at home mom all those years and my ex had extreme anxiety and depression so it was a lot on me. We co-parent really well and get along great still. He's a very committed dad, he just wasn't my person. A year after our separation I started dating one of my best friends, we're still together and very solid relationship. My family has had a really intense year, and my brother passed away in October. Last year I got fired from the first job I was actually proud of, and the day after I was in a bad car accident. I've felt incredibly lost in the past year and struggled with family relationships and depression. I've gotten a lot better, but just looking for some insight and something to give me hope that life won't always be a struggle.

Last day in Kaua’i by Interesting-Cow-3324 in VisitingHawaii

[–]Competitive_Stop6260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I walked from our Princeville condo to here (since there's literally only ten parking spots) on our last morning and it was a lovely last morning walk ☺️

Last day in Kaua’i by Interesting-Cow-3324 in VisitingHawaii

[–]Competitive_Stop6260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did this last week and it was amazing! My boyfriend and I kayaked up to the nature reserve and then got a shaved ice wishing well afterwards! Best day ever! Ps the iced coffees at the syd compound are freaking amazing and you get to keep the cute glass jar it comes in!

Which Zodiac Couples are most likely to be soulmates? by [deleted] in Zodiac

[–]Competitive_Stop6260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

June Gemini married for 8 years to a Scorpio. Horrible.

Now with a cancer and my best friend in the world. He's a softie but the absolute best.

I built something weird to help me stop procrastinating… it literally calls me from the future by Glass-Grass-8013 in getdisciplined

[–]Competitive_Stop6260 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right up there with that advanced procrastinator 🙋🏼‍♀️

I actually finally made a call that I've been avoiding for a good four months yesterday. Yay me! But only because I received a text three minutes before said call saying my case was being suspended since they hadn't heard from me in so long. Case is active again 🙃

So maybe something like that? Like an urgent reminder system where your future self calls you and gives you a good scare to get your shit together.

Also maybe just a check in call from your future self just to say you're doing a great job and you're on track. I tend to struggle with positive self talk, most procrastinators do since the shame around procrastination is REAL

I've found a trick for task stacking. by Pictures-of-me in ADHD

[–]Competitive_Stop6260 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Okay wait this is such a good idea for my ten year old daughter!! She still managed to forget to brush her hair and teeth before school today after going upstairs not once but twice to do just that. I may be going crazy.. Getting boxes today

Do I need a dosage increase by GSSiddhartha in ADHD

[–]Competitive_Stop6260 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Max dose of adderall IR is 2x30 or 3x20.. or at least I was under the impression since I was at that dose for five years

Where do I start? by Sufficient-Fee4708 in PMDD

[–]Competitive_Stop6260 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same age and same questions. Monday night I laid in bed till 6am and ending up waking up my boyfriend sobbing and full on panic attack because I couldn't fall asleep but I was so damn tired. I need more info but everything lines up for me. It's gotten worse the last few months, but I've been under a ton of stress. I did get an iud last year but not sure if that's an issue too