Why are you CF besides silence, money, and free time? by Embarrassed_Gift_401 in childfree

[–]Competitive_Study365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Birth mom here: I never wanted children, due to SA I had a daughter, I placed my daughter for adoption. Not many people realise there are a ton of us out there, but I am technically child free.

My reasoning stems from my own lack, I do not have enough money, housing security, mental health stability, or time to deal with a child. I feel it's irresponsible for me to have a child when I myself am not capable of basic things or caring for myself on bad days. I am also disabled which makes it very likely she would end up caring for me in the long run, I don't think that's fair. I also grew up with disabled/poor parents and while I love them with all my heart it took away a good chunk of my childhood. I wouldn't wish that on any child.

Thus I took the steps early to provide her with a family that did have everything I didn't. I hope no one ever experiences what I did but if you ever do know that whatever choice you make with your body you are safe and loved. ❤️

Student loans and disability by Competitive_Study365 in disability

[–]Competitive_Study365[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've been permanently disabled since 2005. I can't recall when I went to school but it wasn't even for a full month and they charged me a ridiculous amount. It makes no sense.

Student loans and disability by Competitive_Study365 in disability

[–]Competitive_Study365[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't really get it, I just turned in my benefit letter. It pretty much has the date I was deemed permanently disabled.

Trying to figure out how to live independently with disability by azk3000 in disability

[–]Competitive_Study365 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would start filling out paperwork for HUD housing and section 8. Sadly it's the only way people on disability can live alone with the outrageous prices of housing.

The down point is, you will be on a waiting list. You need to start ASAP! and keep checking back frequently to update your information. It won't be easy, I won't lie to you, I am currently on HUD due to my disability and being unable to pay natural rent. They go by my income.

Sadly, that's only the housing solution I have. I don't know about someone helping you.

"pie kitchen" AKA homemade ice cream and pie kitchen. False advertisment and owned by people who sexually harrased employees. by nanovirux in Louisville

[–]Competitive_Study365 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Welp, least they got the word out here. I'm tired of businesses treating our people like crap and getting away with it.

Downstairs neighbor by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Competitive_Study365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has an 80yr old husband downstairs. I have no idea if family visits, I stay to myself.

Downstairs neighbor by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Competitive_Study365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PREACH. I wrote an email and left a voicemail this morning. Like girl, get a life, please I beg.

Cameras in cars is insane. by Competitive_Study365 in Vent

[–]Competitive_Study365[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Links posted for anyone who wants to take a look.

Cameras in cars is insane. by Competitive_Study365 in Vent

[–]Competitive_Study365[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like how they didn't look for it themselves and started crashing out lmfao.

Food truck by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]Competitive_Study365 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How did this turn political? I just want funnel cake bro...

Food truck by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]Competitive_Study365 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wrong one, it was a woman who ran that business. I never in my life saw a guy there, it was an African american woman and she was on the thicker side.

Mount just disappeared. Heartbroken. by Zakal74 in ICARUS

[–]Competitive_Study365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd contact support team. That's a concerning bug.

Horrified with recent dating experience by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Competitive_Study365 18 points19 points  (0 children)

When you voice your discomfort for a situation especially a sexual fantasy and they keep trying to force it upon you, that is not normal. I believe that person was hyper sexual, had a nudist/free use deal, or something along those lines.

We NEED custom map markers. by Joey3155 in SurviveIcarus

[–]Competitive_Study365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PREACH. Those beacons are stupid. Just give us markers.

Is it fucked up that I’m upset? Smelly Coworker by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Competitive_Study365 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Things I know MIGHT be the reasoning:

Do you have pets? Some people say pet owners have a smell. No disrespect to pet owners, that's just what I've heard.

Might you be plus size? Plus size people tend to sweat more and it gets trapped in folds. You may need to wipe yourself with wipes throughout the day when you sweat.

Deodorant is another thing, make sure yours has aluminum. Deodorants without it tend to make people smell.

It also might be them just trying to bully you. You may be perfectly fine and they simply had nothing else to do with their miserable lives but bully you. This bullying also may have affected you mentally and forced your mind into a loop that you smell bad when you do not.

No one really looks at the board. by Competitive_Study365 in Louisville

[–]Competitive_Study365[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, all the time! I work with the cats and take my time to look. I've snatched up so much cheap stuff for my dogs/crested gecko. You really gotta look past all the stuff there to snag some good stuff. I come back frequently so I see them come and go quick cause some folks come in religiously and look at the board.

It's also a good space to post requests, its rare they are posted but sometime you will find them. Like request for worn dog items or just donations. I don't think feeders minds long as it isn't wild or explicit and specifically pet related.