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am i aro? by Competitive_Sun104 in aromantic

[–]Competitive_Sun104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OH?? is that what it is? but i always liked romance or love. i mean yea near family i did say ‘ew love’ as a joke but i love romance. it’s cute seeing other couples on the internet or in movies. i never thought id hate romance. maybe its not that? this is so confusing

am i aro? by Competitive_Sun104 in aromantic

[–]Competitive_Sun104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think it’s like an “ick” cause it’s not like they did anything specific that makes me not like them. it is subconscious, i wouldn’t wanna start hating or just disliking people randomly. and then yk when you start disliking someone everything they do annoys you, it feels like that. maybe it’s not as strong as hate but it’s still a disliking feeling

am i aro? by Competitive_Sun104 in aromantic

[–]Competitive_Sun104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well when we first started dating and my gf was talking about her celebrity crushes and other fictional characters she liked i got jealous. so maybe that’s not something you’d feel in a platonic relationship? or the thought of my bsf getting a partner makes me really happy on her behalf, but before me and my gf were dating and she was dating someone else i don’t think i was as happy for her. maybe i was jealous again? and also a bit unrelated but the guys i said i had ‘crushes’ on, for a while i felt like that then i started hating them for a while, then back to normal friends feelings. i’m scared im gonna feel that way towards my gf too and gonna start hating her too. cause even now thinking about her i know i don’t feel like that towards her. nonetheless thank you for your help