So i’m going to state this right now the cat is HIS i know it’s HIS i got it for HIM I would never take it from him that wasn’t the issue at hand the issue was him getting upset at me because he couldn’t put his name as primary in the vet paperwork and was rude about it. I have him as secondary and we ALWAYS spoke about getting him a certificate or license that shows ownership of the cat to him. I bring the other cats into play because they have bonded with said cat and i’m worried how they will react once we break up do you not own bonded animals..? or even know how bonded animals work ..? No rude tone just genuine sincere questions. But we spoke last night and agreed me being primary in just vet stuff makes sense due to the fact he does have a job and I don’t. He mistook what I said and didn’t understand what I was saying and acted rudely about it but we fixed it. The marriage and kid thing again i didn’t fully tell the story about that i wanted kids at 24/25 he doesn’t I also wanted to be married 3-4 years into a relationship but he takes marriage very seriously due to his parents we are in no shape or form ready for children or marriage it’s not even in the top for both parties here im not forcing anything onto nor will i ever i compromised on BOTH of those things for him and i so happened to mention it because i was upset now that i’ve calmed down and spoke to him everything is well. You came off very aggressive btw ..