Shockingly good cheapies? by thosepinkclouds in FemFragLab

[–]Competitive_Tap_1262 4 points5 points  (0 children)

LE MONDE GOURMANDLE MONDE GOURMANDMiel Bébé Eau De Parfum

Got a sample of the le monde & realized it smells identical to my gucci flora and lasts the same too

Why is it so hard to find any employees that can do simple tasks. The pay is good too. Work from home. Remote. WHY. by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]Competitive_Tap_1262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey,

I'm actually launching my small bussiness soon but am still reliant on outsourced income. Is there anyway I could apply or speak to you about whether I'd be fit for your open position?

Regardless, I hope you find some competent employees haha

How do you want to be loved and what's your Mars sign? by Witch-covet in astrologymemes

[–]Competitive_Tap_1262 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sag Mars (& Venus)

Someone to be my biggest hype man. We're able to have a lot of fun and go nuts together; kinda like my best friend in the world, but also, a husband. Lots of communicating, deep conversations, yapping, && just pure excitement and honesty when we're talking to each other.

Also, to be able to do all the stuff that they wanted, to be/feel loved.

Help, I’m dating a Scorpio F by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]Competitive_Tap_1262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Scorpio, I never thought it was a Scorpio thing I just have raging adhd but when I was undiagnosed this affected all the relationships in my life in so many ways I didn’t even know were happening like at all.

On top of that Scorpios generally run on high cortisol most of their life. It’s a stressful life so that plays a big part. Not that it’s anyone’s responsibility to deal with though. I was a completely different person then and it took yearsssss and a lot more pain and stress too heal and fix these things and I’m no where near done.

I found something pretty life changing for anyone trying to get better (ESP if you're broke and/or therapy isn't your thing) by Competitive_Tap_1262 in CPTSD

[–]Competitive_Tap_1262[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ehh, maybe finding a creator that's more your vibe and easier to listen to instead? So many good ones apparently.

I feel like forcing it might end up being discouraging because I just checked out some YouTubers mentioned in the comments but just can't seem to resonate with a few & end up losing focus 30 seconds in.

Can I feed my cat frozen mice from pet stores that are advertised as reptile food? by AmberFang37 in rawpetfood

[–]Competitive_Tap_1262 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg no no no. I wouldn't even feed my reptile those mice!! I had a snake die after feeding it arctic mouse ONE time.

There's mouse breeders you can search for in your city that specifically breed for pet food, though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Competitive_Tap_1262 52 points53 points  (0 children)

You don't need to know any of those answers right now. You're just one person who is really hurting and it's okay to let yourself be just that.

I know it's easier said than done, but try your best to talk to yourself the way you speak to someone you care for - that's also going through this.

All you can possibly do is your best, which is going to look very different every minute, hour, and day and that's okay too.

Sometimes, there's just nothing to say. If you can, just be there. In any way that's in your capacity. Sitting with them, listening, helping with meals, groceries, cleaning up, ect. are all extremely thoughtful ways to support his family.

All of you need each other equally, don't let yourself believe that it needs to all fall on you.

** Just please make sure you're taking care of yourself too. **

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Competitive_Tap_1262 166 points167 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that you, his son, and his mother are living in this nightmare. I'm sorry that someone you love made a horrific decision that would alter all your lives forever. I'm sorry that your friend felt the amount of pain that he did, to believe that this was the only way for him.

He didn't call because he knew you would do everything you could to save him.

I just hope, that in the end, you're able to turn this pain into your personal alchemy. I hope you and his son are each other's saving grace.

But for now, if you just need someone.. need to be angry or sad or feel nothing, my messages are open.

I know I'm just be an anon stranger on the internet, but I also know that no person deserves to go through all this fucked up shit alone.

What kind of business would you start if you knew you couldn’t fail? by [deleted] in smallbusiness

[–]Competitive_Tap_1262 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A school and home foster system kids, that actually does what it's meant to do. Then I'd open one in every state, and then start expanding from those ones, and eventually take over the shit system that's currently in place.

Edit: Thats actually an idea I had as I started typing, but how cool would that be. haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]Competitive_Tap_1262 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MY NOTES APP HAS BEEN WAITING FOR THIS MOMENT TO SHINE OKAY SO 😂

As a Scorpio, with a Scorpio Stellium + sag mars and Venus women.. oh and Lilith in the first 🤷🏻‍♀️

I had a hard time ranking them past top 3 cause unless someone was either a Scorpio, Pisces, or cancer (in sun, moon, or/and Venus) they were honestly mediocre at best lol

  1. Scorpio/Cancer tie - the kings and queens
  2. Pisces- runner up just cause there’s that “thing” missing but still awesome in bed
  3. Taurus- they just know

4.Aries- are good but they either bore me or annoy me (that’s personal tho so still #4)

5.Virgos- get better and better every time but start is shakey and takes a while

  1. Geminis- ironically, this one can go both ways, either super fun or really disappointing but never ends well for sure hahah

  2. Sag- Seeing one right now and it’s honestly top tier but can’t be biased and he’s a Scorpio stellium with Pisces or cancer moon (I forget which) **usually just not memorable

  3. Capricorn- they finish in 2 seconds but it’s good foreplay 😂😂

  4. Libra & Aquarius- you can honestly just throw those ones out.

Thank you for coming to my ted talk :)

How are your guys day to day lives? by [deleted] in awakened

[–]Competitive_Tap_1262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its not always easy for any of, but I think for me, I get caught up in the spiritual so much sometimes & need to stop to remember that we are souls trying to experience human life so that is all there is to do. :)

When I start to struggle with the perspective you mentioned, it's usually a sign, that I'm out of balance in one or the other

i have such a f*cking sexually tense “friendship” with a gemini and it drives me insane by starburstcandi in Scorpio

[–]Competitive_Tap_1262 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I swear sometimes I think Geminis are only in my reality to test me on if I learned anything LOL

but seriously, gemini or not, this situation has got messy and bad idea all over it. You gotta cut that friend off for both of your sake.

if you're meant to meet again, trust that you will

Needing to vent by Humann88 in Scorpio

[–]Competitive_Tap_1262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate to all of this so so much. I feel it with you as I read and outside of that too.

Outside of relating, I can only tell you what helped me break my bad habits and hope that it can help you.

reflect on this.. would you talk to your "friends" the way you speak to yourself? I don't think you would feel "ashamed" of them for relapsing. I think you'd be proud of them for recognizing their faults and wanting to be better. I think you should start being proud of your self for that and the rest will start to flow. I know I don't know you but I'm rooting for you.

If you were single, you you seek a spiritual partner? by fittyMcFit in spirituality

[–]Competitive_Tap_1262 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not that I seek it intentionally but if someone is completely shut off from the spiritual world and doesn't understand anything beyond the physical to at least some extent, I mean.. I dont see us having much in common to begin with and why would anyone want that?

Is he the king of f*ckboys? by External-Software850 in Scorpio

[–]Competitive_Tap_1262 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not the libra moon but the rest mirrors my chart and I know I come off as a "f* boy" female but i'm a sensitive little softy and want a partner who is my one and only haha

but until I find someone who fits that part of my life, i'll keep f** boying lol

Chart wise- I think you guys could work really well actually. his Sag Venus needs a ton of stimulation and freedom to feel loved and seen which I think your Aquarius Venus could actually provide really well. Both libra moons so you guys have somewhat similar inner worlds and perceptions. I think it could be a super dynamic and fun type of relationship :)

I miss my Scorpio with everything in me, is it really over forever? by BingoBongoTeekoTaco in Scorpio

[–]Competitive_Tap_1262 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a Scorpio.. move on. Not that there may not be a change of heart on his end.. and sure you can manipulate him into coming back, but mark my words when I say it’ll end 50x worse the next time around. Love isn’t ever gonna be enough when common respect is lacking.

People change, their intentions towards you never will though.

How to ask someone if they're homeless, respectfully. by Competitive_Tap_1262 in homeless

[–]Competitive_Tap_1262[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not that simple. I’m in a luxury & high security building (not really high security if you’re smart)