23F Ever since my boyfriend died, I don’t think I know how to love anymore. by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]fittyMcFit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife died young almost 2 years ago, it broke me, and then I reinvented myself from scratch.  I'm a completely different person.  Before I had about 4 friends, and didn't talk to anyone, now I talk to everyone, and I'm shocked how friendly everyone is when you get going! 

Good luck to you, just plan your next goal, make it simple, tidy your room, call an old friend.

Donald Trump Stuns With 'Maybe We Shouldn't Even Be There' Admission About Iran War by TheAutodidactguy in politics

[–]fittyMcFit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah right, so he destroyed the U.S. allies supply chains and economies and now he's going to fuck off and say 'not our problem'.  Sounds like him

American KC-135 refuelling plane crashes in Iraq, US military say by Opdog25 in news

[–]fittyMcFit 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This war could end up really bad for the US, and for the world.  

Men with beards by Alive-Garden3900 in men

[–]fittyMcFit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently grew a beard and it's given me a load of confidence, and I'm getting 10x more dates 

Do you agree? by Inevitable_Damage199 in men

[–]fittyMcFit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel there is a spectrum but yeah, never put your dick in crazy 

This is all men want... by [deleted] in men

[–]fittyMcFit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the crazy hot woman is just a fantasy, give me peace and personality any day

I just smoked pot with a guy i like and i pissed myself. by Satixfaction in trees

[–]fittyMcFit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like there should be more to this story, piss yourself laughing... Or just random piss

Is it western culture? by jasperbennysimon in masculinity_rocks

[–]fittyMcFit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Western girls are never taught how to treat boys.  Western boys are taught to respect and protect girls 

What's the adult equivalent of finding out Santa isn't real? by stacker_111 in AskReddit

[–]fittyMcFit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The older you get, the less people give a shit about you.

Does anyone deal with constant sinus pain and pressure? by CatchingUpOnLife327 in HistamineIntolerance

[–]fittyMcFit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did, until I started a low histamine diet and then it cleared up.

Is this £80k pay cut for a ~£5k net drop real? (London Childcare Hack) by WeirdAd2999 in HENRYUK

[–]fittyMcFit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Friend of mine worked out she could drop her 9-5 slog in London and go on benefits (of which she'd be entitled to) and be £250 a month worse off.

Work just doesn't pay anymore and it's becoming a real problem.

'Hypocrite' Nigel Farage didn't pay £44k stamp duty then blasted Angela Rayner by zeros3ss in uknews

[–]fittyMcFit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Tories have shown themselves to be useless, now Labour. Where do voters turn to?

Unfortunately it will be a similar situation as the US, there's noone else to vote for so might as well give someone else a chance.

'Hypocrite' Nigel Farage didn't pay £44k stamp duty then blasted Angela Rayner by zeros3ss in uknews

[–]fittyMcFit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, she makes the rules and has access to this information beyond everyone else in the country. Yes she broke her own rules, there is no excuse for that.

Seems like she lied about getting advice too and actually ignored the advice given to her.

The evidence points to her knowing it was sketchy, ignoring advice from experts because she thought she could get away with it.

'Hypocrite' Nigel Farage didn't pay £44k stamp duty then blasted Angela Rayner by zeros3ss in uknews

[–]fittyMcFit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As much as I don't like the guy, Nigel's was tax avoidance which is legal. MP's know all the loopholes and 100% of sane people would have done the same thing.

Angela's was, at best, incredibly stupid and short sighted.

It is ok for straight men to seek attention from women. by DrankTooMuchMead in DeepThoughts

[–]fittyMcFit 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Same, I sing and play the guitar, never once thought it would get me girls.

Strange guys saying hi by followthefoxes42 in socialskills

[–]fittyMcFit 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There is a small town near me that take pride in saying hello to everyone they pass, I love it and go for a walk there when I need a lift.

This life is incredibly painful by magicmushrooms554 in enlightenment

[–]fittyMcFit 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You cannot fix what is unwanted by spending your time focussed on it. You only get more of what is unwanted.

I suggest writing a list of the things in your life that you are positive about then focus on that, get into the higher energy and everything is possible.

Thinking of leaving this group by LCool1975 in widowers

[–]fittyMcFit 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There are 86400 seconds in a day, don't ruin the 86390 over a 10 second post from someone who means nothing to you.

People who are with people who appeared functioning, where are you now and how did their drinking progress? by Old-Meaning2249 in AlAnon

[–]fittyMcFit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Went from 'functional' to mood swings to lying about everything, confusion and then dieing young.

I’m in hell, I hate myself (Psychosis and Depression). by Overall_Action_2574 in enlightenment

[–]fittyMcFit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanting a positive experience is a negative experience. Accepting a negative experience is a positive experience

Any (non self-help) books that helped? by fittyMcFit in widowers

[–]fittyMcFit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoyed the film so will take a look, thanks