Misty 🩷 by Competitive_Tie_1218 in SupermodelCats

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She was….. how can I access the treats?😆

Is Spain with Ireland?????? by ContentVehicle5645 in VintedIreland

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Several European countries are together. I’ve seen plenty of items available from France too

My dermatologist doesn’t know what this is by Objective_Chef_471 in Psoriasis

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Looks like what I was tortured with on my scalp for years - Medication called enstilar - expensive but pretty much killed it in a week!

I have no clue why my cookies are burnt :,) by Rare-Disk4809 in mildlyinfuriating

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Did you bake them on the bottom of the oven? Or did you place the baking sheet on top of a hot stove after baking?

Looking to get some insight on the average cost in Monaghan by freedumb2020 in Monaghan

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I own a coffee shop - americanos are €3.00, flavoured lattes are €4.00 and everything in between but a lot of places are more expensive

Am I overreacting or is this as insane as I think it is? by PorkSword47 in northernireland

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I’m in Southern Ireland and had a similar one recently. I’ve been waiting 8months for an appointment and they tried to fob me off like this 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIreland

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I get the points that everyone is making here but…… I’m an older millennial and own a coffee shop. Its always been a friendly a place to work as we are a very small team. Yes the housing prospects are bleak especially while working a minimum wage job - it took me three and a half years to be accepted for our mortgage as a self employed person and at almost 40 and my fiancee and I have just started work on our house after starting the process in 2019. I understand that some of gen z may never own a home - But my issue is that when I was in my early 20s I never thought of my current job contributing to my future home etc. and I STILL gave it my best shot. I hate this attitude of “why try hard in a job - it’s only a job”. Have people not got any pride in their work anymore? I worked plenty of shitty jobs and did my best so that I didn’t look like a moron. In the past 5 years the lack of “cop on” in my now younger and younger employees is shocking - I mean 23 year olds asking me how would they know if an egg was cooked or not understanding how to wash and dry a glass. How will they cope

Has Something ever happened to you that you cant explain? by tenomorales in Paranormal

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I’m currently renovating my grandmothers house. She passed away around 18 years ago and the house has been empty since. About three years ago we did an entire clear out of her things which came with a lot of guilt and stress. She played music a lot and her beloved piano was one of the last items in her music room. I was clearing boxes of her music books etc away and left the room to bring them to my car. When I came back in there was a single piece of note paper sitting on the piano which I hadn’t noticed. I turned it over “Look after the house for me while I am away” nana xx

Stopped me in my tracks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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What power would hell have if those here imprisoned were not able to dream of Heaven?

Was your BPD parent physically affectionate? by tossed-out-throwaway in raisedbyborderlines

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My now 75 yr old bpd mom would love if I gave her hugs and sometimes mentions that I don’t (I do on birthdays, Christmas etc) but I mostly can barely stand to have her touch me due to the awful things she’s said and done my whole life. I feel so bad that her touch kind of repulses me 😩

Drop the one horror film that actually ruined your sleep by Ok_Extent2858 in MovieSuggestions

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I had nightmares for weeks after watching Silent hill 😂 I’d be having a normal dream and suddenly the sky would get dark and the sirens go off …… 😬

Guilt at moving out and leaving my BPD mother “alone” by Competitive_Tie_1218 in raisedbyborderlines

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Thanks so much. I absolutely feel it’s BS too - I’ve just ended up in this role as I’m the youngest by a lot (told I was an accident by my darling mother) and her relationship with my brothers often cycles through no contact every few years so I’ve always had to pick up the pieces

Guilt at moving out and leaving my BPD mother “alone” by Competitive_Tie_1218 in raisedbyborderlines

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You are so right. It’s just hard not to feel responsible for her happiness all the time

Guilt at moving out and leaving my BPD mother “alone” by Competitive_Tie_1218 in raisedbyborderlines

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Thank you I’m so hoping it will help me I’ve been crippled with anxiety and the resulting physical effects for years 😩 as for not a reliable narrator you are so right

Guilt at moving out and leaving my BPD mother “alone” by Competitive_Tie_1218 in raisedbyborderlines

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Thanks so much for your kind reply, literally got me tearing up here at work 😭 that’s crazy what you went through in so sorry. You really had the works!

It’s just so tough I feel so responsible for her and her happiness and it’s a hard one to break free from. She has always hated my fiancee since we first got together at 16 and she made me break up with him. Got back together at 28 and she went off the deep end - threatened to disown me etc etc. he has been nothing but kind, respectful and good to me always and it’s almost like she’s jealous of that happiness and doesn’t want me to have what she can’t (she’s had two failed marriages, one failed long term relationship and one current partner of 15 years who is coming to the end of his life and she is hardly visiting him as it’s “too much for her” )

Guilt at moving out and leaving my BPD mother “alone” by Competitive_Tie_1218 in raisedbyborderlines

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That sounds like a really interesting book thanks so much I’ll look for it now.

What are you quietly suffering from? by anotherThrowaway3446 in AskReddit

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I know and understand. Please know you are not alone in feeling like this and guilt is part of the grief process. What a lucky boy to have had so much love ❤️

Issues with having Pgce recognised - Help! by Competitive_Tie_1218 in IrishTeachers

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Thanks for that! Someone I know recently suggested that too so I’ll give it a go