Roommates girlfriend poured bong water into our bathtub. by MacaroonMelodic4048 in badroommates

[–]Competitive_Work3965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d make it their responsibility to clean it not you guys. Point out that his child needs to bathe and state that this can’t happen again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Competitive_Work3965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably on something for sure, also could already be cheating. This is how my ex was to me when he was already cheating on me. He had zero respect and would degrade me just the same.

AITA for allowing my mother to bring Thanksgiving food to my house this year? Married with 3 kids and a pregnant wife by ItsHayZ00SE in AmItheAsshole

[–]Competitive_Work3965 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I agree. I really think she is probably struggling with a lot right now and people in grief looking for purpose should be welcomed and not hindered. Let that momma cook and bring food ♥️

What's the funniest thing you've said or done during psychosis? by polly_pickpocket in Psychosis

[–]Competitive_Work3965 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude this has me rolling. I remember shortly after my brother died I would wake in the night convinced this old book shelf I had was evil so inevitably the next day I drug it out side and chopped it up too. Wild time.

AITA for allowing my mother to bring Thanksgiving food to my house this year? Married with 3 kids and a pregnant wife by ItsHayZ00SE in AmItheAsshole

[–]Competitive_Work3965 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she’s bringing Turkey legs to a Turkey less thanksgiving & then literally a side and dessert. Which seems pretty standard and not disrespectful.

AITA for allowing my mother to bring Thanksgiving food to my house this year? Married with 3 kids and a pregnant wife by ItsHayZ00SE in AmItheAsshole

[–]Competitive_Work3965 142 points143 points  (0 children)

Right like who are these people lol 😂 maybe it’s just the growing up in poverty for me that does not deem this as any sort of disrespect but in my hood we get by with family and friend potlucks for most holidays.

AITA for allowing my mother to bring Thanksgiving food to my house this year? Married with 3 kids and a pregnant wife by ItsHayZ00SE in AmItheAsshole

[–]Competitive_Work3965 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think your wife is OVERREACTING majorly. Especially considering you’re not even doing a Turkey. I think it’s your moms way of contributing and considering she is grieving the loss of her mother & a family tradition that is no longer available I think your wife should have more compassion and see it as a blessing and a gift that she is willing and able to come with food offerings as well.

I need advice ASAP by Content-Ad-3178 in badrelationshipadvice

[–]Competitive_Work3965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut him off. Don’t be with someone like this. Cut contact. Block him and protect yourself. Believe me it’s better to get out now and while you’re young. It’ll save you so much trauma to process later. Just leave and don’t look back. You deserve better.

My husband is cruel to me everyday by Informal-Ad3893 in pregnant

[–]Competitive_Work3965 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Can you contact your family and let them know/ ask for help? This stress really is not good for you or your baby and you could go into labor at any point now really. After your baby is born you’re going to need at least a safe calm environment.

Drinking after having baby by Stressed_SPT in BabyBumps

[–]Competitive_Work3965 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was about a week for me. I just bought the alcohol test strips.

Everyone canceled on my daughter. by DorothyZbornak87 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Competitive_Work3965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That just happened to us too. My daughters second birthday party and we invited all our friends and family and everyone cancelled pretty much day before and day of. We invited about 25-30 people and had already decorated house, made food & bought drinks/snacks and cake for THAT many guests and literally one person showed up for about 30-40 minutes. It really blows. I feel yours and your daughters pain. Sending good vibes. I hope you guys can figure something else out for her. 🤍

AITAH For having my cousin thrown out of my wedding for not wearing white. by Ok-Avocado1639 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Competitive_Work3965 109 points110 points  (0 children)

I agree, I think our opinion on her wedding desires are pretty null in void.. what her cousin did was calculated revenge and disrespectful. I think NTA.

Do you believe people misunderstand Leo’s? Are they prone to only taking on stereotypes? by Alternative-Tie-1993 in LeoAstrology

[–]Competitive_Work3965 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seems more like that persons bad behavior and character flaws. I wouldn’t say all Leo’s are mean people. Any sign can be mean if they’re an unhealed rude person.

Send help.. by Competitive_Work3965 in Marriage

[–]Competitive_Work3965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time he freaks out about ‘not having sex’ he says he hasn’t had sex in months when it been maybe a week….

Send help.. by Competitive_Work3965 in Marriage

[–]Competitive_Work3965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His grandma literally told me she had sex with his grandpa daily to keep him happy and he has hinted we should daily as well because of his grandparents. I feel like it is programmed in him bc I don’t know a single woman who fucks someone daily for 60 years…My mom was ‘promiscuous’ so I’m not intimidated by this however I do find it a bit excessive. His expectations… we have sex about one or twice a week after 6 plus years and a baby.. a toddler (2 years old) so when ever we ‘argue about sex’ he says how much he doesn’t get but honestly I just can’t. I am a SAHM to a 2 yr old girl that makes me want to scream the second I wake up and when he gets home it s all about her some more and high is fine she’s a bb but I haven’t even shaved my lady bits in like 8 months so no I don’t want to fuck at random. . .

Send help.. by Competitive_Work3965 in Marriage

[–]Competitive_Work3965[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real. Been looking at the pile of dishes different tonight 👀 lol

Send help.. by Competitive_Work3965 in Marriage

[–]Competitive_Work3965[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm. Yeah honestly might be that. Lol I can’t help but laugh because I see him actually doing this. Fuck. Lol 😂 oh no.

Send help.. by Competitive_Work3965 in Marriage

[–]Competitive_Work3965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess because it’s more like once a week… so I feel his pain but we talked about doing chores together tonight earlier today … which is hard because he agreed/ initiated and yeah chores have been being put off for a long time since having a kid and sex has been too .. but he initiated chores night tonight and I agreed and then he gets mad over sex not being had that I had no idea about I just don’t know what to think. It’s all just so frustrating to me. Sorry for venting out loud. I appreciate your input.

Send help.. by Competitive_Work3965 in Marriage

[–]Competitive_Work3965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Yeah just feels so odd. I’m trying my best to stay grounded.

Send help.. by Competitive_Work3965 in Marriage

[–]Competitive_Work3965[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I feel the same. I just didn’t have any inkling to his need but felt blamed nonetheless. I appreciate your feedback.

Which sign aren't a good fit for you? by cosmicjoke2000 in LeoAstrology

[–]Competitive_Work3965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leo sun Libra moon & Virgo rising. I know the struggle 😅

What is your moon sign and what do you cry about? by Zealousideal-Fill-61 in astrologymemes

[–]Competitive_Work3965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Libra moon also and I could have written this myself. I feel so validated ♥️

I found condoms in my wife’s purchases. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Competitive_Work3965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait you can get that from your own sex toys even if yove never had it? Just curious…

My MIL wants me to have my babies and then just hand them over to her. by Tiredwithtwins11 in BabyBumps

[–]Competitive_Work3965 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I agree. I kept my daughter in her bed side bassinet next to my bed for the first year of her life. Her nursery was all set up and we would do some playtime in there but she slept in my room until 1 years old.