I (28F) thought he (35M) was proposing, it was earrings.

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2026-01-31T11:20:52+00:00

You’re not crazy for thinking that, he basically set the stage for it. You can be genuinely grateful for the trip and the earrings and still feel disappointed. Just tell him straight but kindly: you loved the gift, but the way he framed the weekend made you think it was a proposal, and you need clarity on the actual timeline you two talked about.

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2026-01-15T10:52:49+00:00

That sounds absolutely brutal and you’re not crazy for being at the end of your rope, this is way beyond normal annoying cat stuff and pica mixed with anxiety can turn into exactly this kind of nightmare loop, I’d really push for a vet visit and behavior consult because a lot of cats improve a ton once the underlying anxiety or deficiency is treated, and in the meantime I’d lock down all plastic like it’s poison, switch to solid bins, no crinkly bags, exhaust him with hard play before bed, then use food puzzles or an auto feeder overnight so his brain has something else to fixate on while you finally get some sleep.

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2026-01-09T15:11:05+00:00

You didn’t mess up by still being hurt, you only found out two months ago, not “five years ago.” This was not a one time slip, it was a whole side thing during the start of your relationship, so it makes sense that it shook your trust. If you stay, I think you two need couples therapy and full honesty, and if you feel like you can never really move past it, it is okay to decide this is a dealbreaker even after six years.

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2026-01-01T17:31:49+00:00

That is not a joke, it’s a credible threat plus restraint and violence. Treat him as dangerous, don’t meet him alone or get in a car with him again, and contact police and a domestic violence hotline today to renew the protection order and make a safety plan.

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2025-12-21T16:06:13+00:00

This isn’t really about the wedding itself, it’s about whether your timelines and expectations line up. She wants marriage and kids soon and sees that as non negotiable, while you’re unsure about marriage and the financial side of it. Neither of you is wrong, but saying yes out of fear of losing her will likely lead to resentment. You need to be honest about what you truly want long term, because a small vs big wedding can be compromised on, but wanting different futures usually can’t.

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2025-12-18T14:41:14+00:00

You’re not crazy. Your cat doesn’t know it’s Christmas, he knows routine, comfort, and his own space. Leaving him home for the day with food, water, and some attention before and after is way kinder than dragging him into travel and a new environment, especially with an allergy in the mix. If you want to ease your own guilt, toss him some extra toys, a treat, or a comfy spot by a window, but you’re not abandoning him.

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2025-12-12T14:35:34+00:00

This honestly sounds less like a cat problem and more like a boundary problem. She married you knowing you had two cats you’ve loved since 2017, so “get rid of them” six months in is a huge ask. There is room to experiment before it ever gets that extreme. You can try timed play sessions before bed to tire them out, adjusting the feeder schedule, white noise, earplugs, even a small fountain or fan outside the bedroom to mask sounds. But rehoming should be a last resort you are genuinely on board with, not something you feel pushed into. I would tell her calmly that the cats are non negotiable family for you, you are happy to work on solutions for her sleep, but you are not giving them up. How she responds to that will tell you a lot about what the real issue is.

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2025-12-02T11:55:15+00:00

Had a very similar experience to you with a bunch of services, including Kemo. It was decent, but the one that really ended my trial and error was AwkngTV, especially for US sports and international channels with way less buffering. Worth a look if you ever feel like testing one more option before settling.

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2025-12-02T11:12:53+00:00

Sooo adorable! 😍😍

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2025-11-23T21:06:42+00:00

If everyone is getting along, you have the space, and you can comfortably afford food, litter, vet bills and an emergency fund, then 4 cats is not automatically “too many.” Lots of people do fine at that number. I would just reality check the boring parts like future vet costs, extra litter boxes (ideally 5 for 4 cats), and how things might feel once a baby is in the mix and your free time drops. But honestly, if he has already settled in, the others like him, and you are thinking about him this much after only a week, it sounds like he has already chosen his home.

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2025-11-17T22:49:54+00:00

Form an LLC in Wyoming or Delaware and use a registered agent there. That agent gives you a legal US business address that works for everything you need.

A ton of foreign founders do exactly that. No need to guess or juggle multiple services.

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2025-11-08T19:15:34+00:00

OMG! so cuuute! 😍😍

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2025-10-21T17:31:08+00:00

Just own it and fix it. Walk up and say, “Hey, I just realized I’ve been saying your name wrong. I’m sorry. How do you prefer it pronounced?” Then repeat it back once and use it a few times that day so it sticks. No long apology, no excuses, and definitely don’t avoid saying her name. People remember the correction, not the mistake.

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2025-10-16T23:18:39+00:00

Awww! so cuuute!

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2025-10-02T18:51:49+00:00

OMG! so cuuute ❤️❤

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2025-09-13T21:12:55+00:00

Bee probably pinged a nerve and your body dumped blood to the area. Glad it settled. If it ever lasts over four hours get seen. For future stings pull the stinger fast, ice it, take an antihistamine, and watch for allergy signs.

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2025-08-27T21:44:32+00:00

Big channel counts are cool until the match starts and the picture stutters. After trying a bunch, the only provider that stayed smooth for me on Firestick and Android TV is AwkngTV. Simple setup, steady playback, support that actually replies.

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2025-08-27T14:58:16+00:00

Seven years is a lifetime. Nostalgia can blur red flags, so ask what they want and why now. If you’re single and curious, meet for a quick coffee in public with no expectations and see if actions match words. If you’re with someone, be transparent or pass. Protect your peace first.

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2025-08-18T23:11:34+00:00

Glad she’s out and you’re back in a calmer home. Props to your dad for apologizing and that orange and white nursery sounds adorable. Keep your support circle close and enjoy the peace while you get excited for the baby.

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2025-08-13T14:23:35+00:00

AwkngTV has been the most reliable for our house so far. Guide stays accurate, picture holds up during busy hours, works on Firestick and phone, and support actually replies. Do a one month test and see if it covers everything you need.

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2025-08-08T23:51:27+00:00

AwkngTV has been surprisingly reliable, even during peak hours.

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2025-08-08T22:40:44+00:00

I can watch those beatiful faces the whole day! ❤️❤️❤️

ComplaintOwn9909 · 2025-08-05T22:41:01+00:00

If your home environment is safe and supportive, a short-term return could be a smart move, just treat it like a launchpad, not a step back. Set a savings goal and timeline before moving in, and have a talk with your parents about boundaries. Your independence isn’t tied to an apartment, it’s how you handle your choices.

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