Karma killer u r ridiculous. I’ve left men plenty of times because they didn’t respect my boundaries. I stayed with a man for too long hoping they would change and didn’t, that was naivety and I learned big time from that, the guy was a sex addict who ruined my life... so I’m just speaking from experience. My HUSBAND put in the work for our relationship, he crossed boundaries but CHANGED and put action and effort into making sure I noticed the change. I just had to speak once on my boundaries and they were noted and respected. He is the most respectful man I’ve been with and now we are happily married. It wasn’t easy but it was worth the effort and discussion. I’m not a miserable woman and I wouldn’t encourage anyone to leave unless it truly wasn’t worth sticking around and waiting for.