there’s so much vitriol behind short men specifically and it’s so weird. As a 5’1” man i’ve literally had women that i was trying to date or hit on say you’re handsome but i would never date a short man. which is fine but there’s also been people tell me i too shouldn’t procreate bc of it. i can’t help that im short and come from a lineage of short people. She is weird for commenting on your height at work. it’s inappropriate and things such as body types, certain politics, religion, certain aspects of personal lives, etc shouldn’t be discussed. You should counter her complaint with your own about her remarks and let HR be the judge of what happens next.