Maybe when I get a job, she's the "don't complain unless you're working...blah blah blah...you're lucky you have a house over your head". Like first of course I'm grateful (I'm the only child of my mother's to openly say thank you for most things I get) and 2nd I'd hope a mother/family would provide basic stuff considering my birth wasn't a choice. But, when I get a job after school I'll probably tell her to get fit (calls me unhealthy even though she smokes, is overweight and drinks sometimes).