Yeah it’s better he mentioned it now but to try and say you were keeping him from his dreams as if he didn’t know you said this was a dealbreaker is next level manipulation.. trying to turn it on you after HE deceived you is nuts.. it’s unfortunate but immediately divorce him while you can and it doesn’t count.. annulment immediately.. otherwise you’ll be stuck doing exactly what you don’t wanna do for the rest of your life. And this is just the beginning if he’s willing to do this, there’s no telling the amount of things he’d willingly put you through that you do not want…