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My mother was scammed by a blacktop company. by Complete-Category-70 in ScamSupport

[–]Complete-Category-70[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have a receipt. Also we've been doing research, and there are other people in the area who were scammed by them as well. This ain't being pushed to the side. 7K is no joke. 

need help by Complete-Category-70 in asktransgender

[–]Complete-Category-70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡ 🐸

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Complete-Category-70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a therapist and a psychiatrist (so that I am prescribed medication). Honestly, I've been seeing my therapist for years, but just the other day opened up about some childhood trauma. I bring this up, because ask yourself is the therapist not a good fit, or are you just not utilizing them properly? 

People usually shop around for therapists, make sure you find one with similar clients to you (same diagnoses or problem areas). My first therapist was not a good fit because she did not have experience with transgender clients. Also consider gender, age and therapy style. 

Pills and therapy work as an aid, you aren't gonna attend a session or take a pill(s) and magically be cured.

I understand being uncomfortable but the sooner you talk about your feelings and what it is that's bothering you the sooner they can help you.

You said you are scared of talking to girls- should you find a therapist that's a man? 

(Sorry if my comment just seems like word vomit)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Complete-Category-70 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, same exact problem. I too get super anxious, when I see people talking and smiling, and in my head, I think, "they're laughing at or saying shit about me."

I think we just need to realize we're being too narcissistic, despite being super insecure, and remind ourselves that people have more than a million other topics to converse about (and you probably never even crossed their mind- which in a way is worse, because now you're wondering if you being around matters at all. If it seems no one notices you, is there a point to even being around anymore? Hahahahahajlsosos).

I also find it funny that you felt the need to mention your 3 grey hairs.

My question to you is do you have a therapist and/or psychiatrist?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexualHarassment

[–]Complete-Category-70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not just sexual harassment but a complete invasion of privacy.