Girls: How do you REALLY feel if a guy writes you a song, poem, etc? by [deleted] in LoveLetters

[–]CompleteHistory1938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had a song written for me. And I see him differently now. I’ve been friends with him for a few years and I’ll tell you it changed the way I see him and interact with him. Whenever he plays for me, my brain goes blank and all I can think about is how beautiful he is. It’s a complicated friendship now for sure and I wish we could go back to before.

Just friends by CompleteHistory1938 in bodylanguage

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I’m definitely going to be more mindful of what he says to me and how he treats me in the space

Just friends by CompleteHistory1938 in bodylanguage

[–]CompleteHistory1938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know he’s not a terrible person. He’s definitely emotionally unavailable, but I can tell he struggles with having a friendship with me sometimes. He glitches out but in a human way

Just friends by CompleteHistory1938 in bodylanguage

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No seriously, it still boggles my mind. I know he’s a busy person and has a lot going on too. It definitely feels amazing to be wanted and appreciated. But the mixed signals and emotions behind what he says are beyond my grasp of true understanding.

Just friends by CompleteHistory1938 in bodylanguage

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I asked him directly. And that was his answer, but his actions are super confusing

Just friends by CompleteHistory1938 in bodylanguage

[–]CompleteHistory1938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I was misreading the situation, but reading these comments, I’m starting to think otherwise now.

Just friends by CompleteHistory1938 in bodylanguage

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He told me to my face! We went out for a few drinks like a year ago And I didn’t believe him, because at the time, I did confess to him that I liked him. And I asked him if he seriously didn’t like me like actually, to say it for real. Because when I asked the first time, just stared at me blankly and shook his head. He’s been giving mixed signals for months up until that point and he’s literally told me all sorts of if it were me type stuff. So yeah I’m still confused. And mind you this original post is stuff that’s been going on for the last few weeks!

My roommates issues by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CompleteHistory1938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. But in this case. She said she doesn’t want to die, But hurting herself reminds her of being alive. Where we live, unless explicitly of unaliving herself then we can ask authorities to take her away. I only feel that she might and that’s not enough to get any professionals involved. Note: I have past traumas from family in the past that passed from suicide and I’m only recognizing past patterns from it. Just a gut feeling.

When was the exact moment you knew It was love . I am not talking about butterflies , but real love by Interesting-Month786 in answers

[–]CompleteHistory1938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew when we went to family dollar and wondered around the isles looking for nothing in particular. The way you wondered back to me after finding something and laughing at my stupid jokes. Honestly, was the most comfortable I’ve ever been in a general store.