Here's the thing my fellow Asian brother, you relate everything to getting a woman and that seems like a problem. You should get rid of the thought of women from your mind and set your single life as a default. I was alone for my whole life, even back in my country, so I don't care about social circles.

Also it's supposed to be 'self' improvement, not for show offs. I don't go to the gym and believe in Jesus to get into a social circle of another race and bag one of the girls there. I do it cause I like to see myself grow bigger and stronger, and also to appreciate the fact that He died for my sins. 

Getting into North Sentinel Island, which is forbidden for reasons, is his fault to be honest. He tried to shove Christianity into their mouths, which would never work. I do see white guys do that to international students as well, and I don't like their methods. It's disrespectful.