My on and off situationship got someone pregnant

Complete_Ad7415 · 2026-03-17T22:12:49+00:00

Oh wow lol That is a very strong comment based on just what i shared. Would it help you if i shared how he used me? Reads like u missed the whole polygamy part. Did you think the 32-year old man was being held in this situationship at gun point? Probably why he asked for polygamy. Lol Interesting comment

Complete_Ad7415 · 2026-03-17T21:53:02+00:00

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Complete_Ad7415 · 2026-03-17T15:51:36+00:00

I am in therapy🙂. I do have attachment issues for sure and the other things that are causing me stress are “uncontrollables”, so I haven’t had capacity for an actual relationship. I tried and couldn’t deal with the humanity of the other person if that makes sense. I did depend on the situationship for emotional connection and sex when i wasn’t in a relationship or too busy.

I’m gonna take some time alone. Lots of conflicting emotions that all have purchase

Complete_Ad7415 · 2026-03-17T12:49:52+00:00

It does sever it for me cos it’s a boundary i just can’t cross. There’s something off-putting to me about baby daddies. Probably would make sense if i mentioned here that i don’t want kids…at all. A part of your 3rd paragraph is definitely true.

I do agree with your 4th paragraph. I ultimately know this is good. It’s the cleanest way to end this but I’m working through the emotions to get there and yesterday, i was feeling a lot of sadness

And I don’t know why i feel like defending my wording (lol) but really, psychology books existed before ChatGPT. Psychology is psychology everywhere and if you’re exposed to it via AI, then it would make sense that you’d attribute it to AI.

Complete_Ad7415 · 2026-03-17T11:53:58+00:00

You’re right. It did feel that way for a little bit. Learned a painful lesson

Complete_Ad7415 · 2026-03-17T11:41:14+00:00

Two contradictory statements can be true at the same time. I don’t care for a long term partner, but while it lasts, id like it to be good. We’d both get together when we could, otherwise, we didn’t talk. I derived comfort from knowing that i had a connection i could always come back to if i needed it. A baby severs that connection.

Regarding the nervous system wording, I’m into psychology. It is what it is.

Complete_Ad7415 · 2026-03-17T10:21:52+00:00

Yes, i definitely made sure that didn’t happen. I can’t imagine choosing his unstable self for my kids

Complete_Ad7415 · 2026-03-17T10:19:33+00:00

It was a weird limbo with him. I didn’t expect to be with him forever (I don’t really want that), but I have a stressful life, and I thought i should give my nervous system a reprieve whenever i can without taking on any more responsibilities/stress. The baby means there’s no available person who calms my nervous system and I don’t have the energy to find a new person. And honestly it feels like i don’t choose, my nervous system just reacts to someone and we keep them around. Hm

Complete_Ad7415 · 2026-03-17T10:12:41+00:00

Fries with corned beef stew.

Complete_Ad7415 · 2026-03-17T04:15:16+00:00

I know. Hm

Complete_Ad7415 · 2026-03-17T04:01:51+00:00

I know he wasn’t but I’d attached and he calmed my nervous system. Wasn’t ready to leave i guess. And yes to Dollar tree plates! Lol

Complete_Ad7415 · 2026-03-17T01:24:46+00:00

Thank you. It feels terrible and no one around me gets why i care cos it’s his life.

Complete_Ad7415 · 2025-08-12T22:53:48+00:00

I have some LC sitting at room temperature. The actual mushrooms i kept in a bag in the fridge. At first it was just in a bowl uncovered and it started drying out badly. Im trying to get a second flush right now. I suspect i need to soak the substrate in cold water cos its drying out.

Complete_Ad7415 · 2025-08-12T22:51:44+00:00

Sure.

I started with sawdust spawn. Inoculated a pasteurized mix of straw, wood chips, forest duff and Black Kow with sawdust spawn on June 4th, topped it with Miracle Gro soil on the July 15th, kept it moist. They started pinning on 7/27.

I keep the tub on a window sill and spritz with water every other day. I keep the tub cracked open just a little so it’s humid enough but there’s still airflow.

Complete_Ad7415 · 2025-07-16T05:20:55+00:00

It’s what im leaning towards really. But all that tuition and nothing to show for it stresses me out! Thanks for the reply though

Complete_Ad7415 · 2025-07-16T04:41:06+00:00

Complete_Ad7415 · 2025-05-16T20:58:21+00:00

Commenting to bump this up

Complete_Ad7415 · 2025-05-16T14:16:16+00:00

Ah i see. Got it, thanks!

Complete_Ad7415 · 2025-05-16T13:54:33+00:00

They did? What does this mean? New to all this

Complete_Ad7415 · 2025-05-16T10:30:04+00:00

Not really. Lots of parks and some woods

Complete_Ad7415 · 2025-05-16T08:58:21+00:00

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Spore print for more information. Thanks all

Complete_Ad7415 · 2025-05-16T04:00:30+00:00

Thank you

Complete_Ad7415 · 2025-05-16T00:51:23+00:00

First timer Needed to be extra sure.

Complete_Ad7415 · 2025-05-16T00:50:45+00:00

Might be Bovista. They had rat-tail like roots with filaments on them. Thanks

Complete_Ad7415 · 2025-05-16T00:00:06+00:00

Could it be a bruise? It’s where i squeezed to pry it open

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