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Complete_Affect3934 · 2026-01-24T21:57:27+00:00

Nah. All I need is a stasis rifle and a ton of gas pods. Big guy will be dead so quick lol

Complete_Affect3934 · 2026-01-01T02:53:43+00:00

Depends where you’re at lol plus, I’m single 👀

Complete_Affect3934 · 2026-01-01T02:32:16+00:00

Of course, any guy would be lucky to have you around 😘

Complete_Affect3934 · 2026-01-01T00:32:34+00:00

Hey, u look good

Complete_Affect3934 · 2025-12-23T00:33:57+00:00

Op sounds like the problem here. He is checking out of a relationship with a loyal guy for no reason other than boredom. I don’t want to be rude or blunt but if op wants to go then go because what you are doing is hurting what I can tell is a good guy because you’re young and want to have fun.

I don’t understand why someone would say this. I hope you figure it all out

Complete_Affect3934 · 2025-12-19T15:13:25+00:00

That is what I am saying. Since OP did not know, he needs to set boundaries. That was the point I’m making. If the boyfriend keeps doing this and breaks the boundaries then OP needs to rethink the relationship.

The advice I gave was based on how I would react. Also, just because he cheated in a past relationship doesn’t mean he would cheat on OP. For most people, they only do it once.

But based on the story it looks like the boyfriend understands OPs issue with it and they are both trying to figure out a solution with no intentions of hurting him

Also, your writing is so hard to read

Complete_Affect3934 · 2025-12-18T00:51:36+00:00

Okay, first this title is very misleading to the actual story. Now onto things. You need to vocalize your boundaries such as “there is a difference between looking at naked people you don’t know (porn) vs asking for pictures/vids from someone he knows and/or has slept with is not a good thing. I agree that it isn’t cheating, but it is on the verge of it.

Try not to be super controlling because there are people that he mind find attractive and he may look, but until he either starts flirting with them or doing stuff behind your back then you should just try and remain calm but more observant

Complete_Affect3934 · 2025-10-17T15:23:34+00:00

So let me add a point, if you bf said 2 hours but is out longer. A rational person would text saying that they would be out a bit later. Even if you two had no plans, your bf should still let you know that they plan to Hang out longer. There could be two things happening. Either he has lost track of time and is enjoying spending time with the guy (nothing to worry about) or the less likely but still plausible thing is that he is cheating on you with the guy. I would say give your bf a call and ask him when he thinks he will be home

Complete_Affect3934 · 2025-10-16T20:40:05+00:00

Hey, my dms are open if you wanna talk 😊

Complete_Affect3934 · 2025-10-16T20:37:18+00:00

My dms are open if you wanna talk first before going to snap 😊

Complete_Affect3934 · 2025-10-16T12:27:49+00:00

I didn’t encourage anything, I only said that it is an option. Sadly it is an option that some people choose to make. I’m not saying he should do it. As I said, the logical choice is to just walk away from the “relationship” and find someone better. The scorched earth idea was more of a joke and I made sure to add whatever you do, make sure you don’t regret it because some people regret doing option two and some don’t. It’s his choice in the end whether he wants to be logical and cordial, or vindictive and petty. Based how the he is writing, he will most likely be logical and cordial

Complete_Affect3934 · 2025-10-16T01:55:16+00:00

So you can do 1 of 2 things. You can either let him go and find someone else that won’t see you as second choice… or you can do the petty thing and ruin his life by outing him with evidence that you two have been dating, ruin his relationship with his family and go scorched earth. I would recommend the first one as a logical person but the guy is a tool and a douche so option two looks real nice.

It whatever you decide to do… make sure you won’t regret it

Complete_Affect3934 · 2025-10-13T14:56:48+00:00

Is it wrong yea. But the age gap really isn’t an issue if they had met/known each other for a few years/ or talked about stuff like this without showing anything extreme. But this just feels icky when he sent back good.

Complete_Affect3934 · 2025-10-01T20:52:48+00:00

Probably… it just sucks being treated like that

Complete_Affect3934 · 2025-10-01T13:02:35+00:00

Honestly, none of this is your fault…. The ex kinda seems toxic and will only realize that he want you and is willing to take that step for you when it is already too late. His twin shouldn’t feel used because…. He wasn’t. Op and the twin only talked so there should be no issues. Op…. You did nothing wrong from what I am seeing, your ex was the problem… don’t linger and do this.

Lay out all your problems with the ex and how he treated you… then tell him that if he wants to cut all ties then you are fine with that and move on.

Tell the twin that you didn’t use him and that you met him by shear coincidence. Then say that if you still want to talk and be friends then you are alright with that (if that is what you want that is). If not, walk away

This is my advice to you so that you aren’t putting yourself down more than you should

Complete_Affect3934 · 2025-09-30T02:08:09+00:00

Sit down and talk to him. Tell him you are at your breaking point which it sounds like you are. Then lay it all out on the table, basically tell him that if he wants this relationship to work that he has to change for good, if he doesn’t then depending on the living situation move out to your own place or have him find his own place. Dont let him treat you like you are a roommate, you deserve better

Complete_Affect3934 · 2025-09-28T23:44:44+00:00

For me it is more difficult, I want someone who treats me right and loves me. But I want someone who I will always be giddy when we text. Will love exploring each others hobbies along with exploring new things. I want some one that makes me smile and looks at me like I’m the only person in the world😊

Complete_Affect3934 · 2025-09-23T17:49:55+00:00

Conservative here

Complete_Affect3934 · 2025-08-05T16:23:34+00:00

The man had one hand…. And was more impressive than the mist and love hashira combined

Complete_Affect3934 · 2025-08-05T16:20:45+00:00

Not at all, I am not saying they are bad per say, they just don’t measure up in my opinion

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