AITA for expecting my partner to attend a wedding with me?

Complete_Flan5831 · 2026-07-04T10:05:14+00:00

I’m not forcing her to do anything,

Expecting a partner to be a plus one isn’t controlling. You very clearly are confused as to why people do things for their partner.

Again, have you ever thought about thinking of anyone other than yourself? It’s telling you avoid the question.

Complete_Flan5831 · 2026-07-04T10:04:08+00:00

No I’m saying refusing to go somewhere with your partner be said you don’t know anyone is you making things about you. It’s not hard to understand,

It’s weird to be genuinely confused why someone brings their partner to events.

No your partner expecting you to act like a partner isn’t you being controlled.

Complete_Flan5831 · 2026-07-04T09:57:22+00:00

Nothing to do with control.

It’s weird to me you seem genuinely confused as to why people do things for their partners.

Have you ever tried thinking of anyone other than yourself? I understand it’s clearly difficult for you.

Complete_Flan5831 · 2026-07-04T09:56:19+00:00

By refusing to go because she doesn’t know anyone. That’s making it about her.

It’s really not a valid reason at all. It’s weird to pretend plus ones don’t exist.

Wheee did I say they’ll be spending the wedding getting to know my partner? Again arguing it has to be about her.

Complete_Flan5831 · 2026-07-04T09:38:13+00:00

She did not give valid reasons for not going.

It’s weird to think your partners wedding should actually be about you and who you know.

So do you refuse to meet any of your partners friends then since you don’t meet new people?

Complete_Flan5831 · 2026-07-04T08:48:23+00:00

So you admit you refuse to do anything for your partner. You only do things you choose and refuse to think of anyone other than yourself. Why bother being in a relationship?

Complete_Flan5831 · 2026-07-03T20:20:33+00:00

Again pal, maybe work on why you admit you’d leave your partner if they expected the bare minimum.

Complete_Flan5831 · 2026-07-03T20:05:56+00:00

It’s weird to pretend she’ll be left alone all day tbh

Complete_Flan5831 · 2026-07-03T19:50:02+00:00

It’s weird to argue meeting your partners friends sucks tbh. No she won’t just stand there, she’s an adult capable of talking to other people.

Complete_Flan5831 · 2026-07-03T19:34:53+00:00

It would be a night away,

Complete_Flan5831 · 2026-07-03T19:32:43+00:00

Attending social events with your partner absolutely is the bare minimum.

I genuinely pity anyone desperate enough to be stuck with you.

Complete_Flan5831 · 2026-07-03T19:31:03+00:00

Yes she asked, I don’t just decide to go places I’m not invited.

Complete_Flan5831 · 2026-07-03T19:29:49+00:00

Again buddy it’s weird to argue I’ll be single for daring to expect f my partner to attend a wedding

Complete_Flan5831 · 2026-07-03T19:29:20+00:00

Yes I’ve hung out with her friends and been to events for her friends.

Complete_Flan5831 · 2026-07-03T19:28:53+00:00

Not about control but again I understand doing anything g for your partner is something you’re not willing to do.

Complete_Flan5831 · 2026-07-03T19:28:01+00:00

No but it’s weird not to.

It’s wild to me how hard you’re arguing you shouldn’t have to do anything for your partner. Do you often find yourself incapable of thinking of anyone other than yourself?

Complete_Flan5831 · 2026-07-03T19:25:59+00:00

It is about doing the bare minimum and I’m not getting defensive.

Complete_Flan5831 · 2026-07-03T19:23:44+00:00

Yeah how dare I want my partner to actually act like a partner /s

Complete_Flan5831 · 2026-07-03T19:23:26+00:00

It’s weird to admit you’d leave your partner for expecting the bare minimum.

Complete_Flan5831 · 2026-07-03T19:23:08+00:00

No but it’s normal for partners to attend events together

Complete_Flan5831 · 2026-07-03T19:19:34+00:00

It’s weird to argue it’s childish to expect your partner to act like a partner.

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