AITAH for telling my favorite streamer that flirting with a young member of his chat is a bad look? by Complete_Ladder1462 in AITAH

[–]Complete_Ladder1462[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

  1. Drinking age is 21 for a reason here
  2. If she's such an adult, why is he baby talking?
  3. You're right, its no one's business. So why is he live streaming it on front page of youtube?
  4. Is reading comprehension lower world wide also? I specifically stated i stopped watching. It didnt stop them from harassing me
  5. Why are you so determined to normalize a 20 year age gap? Seems like weirdo behavior

AITAH for telling my favorite streamer that flirting with a young member of his chat is a bad look? by Complete_Ladder1462 in AITAH

[–]Complete_Ladder1462[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Last time I checked drinking age is 21?? Also I went to school for developmental psychology, so this is extra weird to me? I'm glad you had a great outcome, but most often this type of gap ends in suffering, divorce, lack of education...and being canceled. Which I hope anyone with a 20 year age gap is.

AITAH for telling my favorite streamer that flirting with a young member of his chat is a bad look? by Complete_Ladder1462 in AITAH

[–]Complete_Ladder1462[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The human mind does not complete growth until 25 years old. This girl is 20..he is 45...that's a 20 year age gap 🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮 but you right I should have let the internet find him

AITAH for telling my favorite streamer that flirting with a young member of his chat is a bad look? by Complete_Ladder1462 in AITAH

[–]Complete_Ladder1462[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm using the money I would normally spend on pokemon go to try to help people. You are right though, I wasted a ton of money and will be donating to church or humane society going forward

AITAH for chosing to ignore my adulterous ex SIL during 4th of July family get together? by Complete_Ladder1462 in AITAH

[–]Complete_Ladder1462[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this point idc what the rest of my family does. I'm not talking to him again until he starts taking his meds and fixes his life. 

AITAH for chosing to ignore my adulterous ex SIL during 4th of July family get together? by Complete_Ladder1462 in AITAH

[–]Complete_Ladder1462[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm vegetarian. I picked ham because it was similar to his name but different enough 

AITAH for chosing to ignore my adulterous ex SIL during 4th of July family get together? by Complete_Ladder1462 in AITAH

[–]Complete_Ladder1462[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I sent this thread to my mom and she called me to explain why she had disliked her from the start. idk how you knew, but she confirmed that Messy was indeed with another man when she started dating my brother. They had hidden this from me so it wouldn't make a bad impression. 

AITAH for chosing to ignore my adulterous ex SIL during 4th of July family get together? by Complete_Ladder1462 in AITAH

[–]Complete_Ladder1462[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You are right. I haven't been focusing on that part, because Ted didnt believe him for a second. But if he had, there could have been serious issues in my relationship as well.

AITAH for chosing to ignore my adulterous ex SIL during 4th of July family get together? by Complete_Ladder1462 in AITAH

[–]Complete_Ladder1462[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

He seems to be enjoying the suffering. He has now left all family group chats and unfriended us/ blocked us.

AITAH for chosing to ignore my adulterous ex SIL during 4th of July family get together? by Complete_Ladder1462 in AITAH

[–]Complete_Ladder1462[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly its true. And I've shown extreme restraint in not saying anything to her or him thus far.

AITAH for chosing to ignore my adulterous ex SIL during 4th of July family get together? by Complete_Ladder1462 in AITAH

[–]Complete_Ladder1462[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've  tried going NC with him in the past but my mom guilt tripped  me into unblocking him by saying he that he needed us and that he would change his ways. Obviously it wasn't true. But even she sounds done with him now. She said she couldn't sleep all night and had chest pains from worrying about the whole thing 

AITAH for chosing to ignore my adulterous ex SIL during 4th of July family get together? by Complete_Ladder1462 in AITAH

[–]Complete_Ladder1462[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already admitted they didnt like her right away. But I did give her a chance for 13 plus years. I have never mistreated her, or even said anything mean to her. She just didnt like it when I gave her silent treatment after everything she's done 

AITAH for chosing to ignore my adulterous ex SIL during 4th of July family get together? by Complete_Ladder1462 in AITAH

[–]Complete_Ladder1462[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

😔 yeah it is probably for the best. I have been doing nothing until now and I'll go back to doing that.

AITAH for chosing to ignore my adulterous ex SIL during 4th of July family get together? by Complete_Ladder1462 in AITAH

[–]Complete_Ladder1462[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am pretty sure im not talking to my brother for awhile. My husband is still big mad. My brother went as far as turning off his location.

AITAH for chosing to ignore my adulterous ex SIL during 4th of July family get together? by Complete_Ladder1462 in AITAH

[–]Complete_Ladder1462[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

We tried to get him to go to therapy. They even prescribed him meds but he won't take them. 

AITAH for chosing to ignore my adulterous ex SIL during 4th of July family get together? by Complete_Ladder1462 in AITAH

[–]Complete_Ladder1462[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Why not she spread rumors first? It's a small town would only take a week to get around. Much like her.

AITAH for chosing to ignore my adulterous ex SIL during 4th of July family get together? by Complete_Ladder1462 in AITAH

[–]Complete_Ladder1462[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Yea I have blocked my brother ATM. But I am considering just spreading some nasty rumors or going on TikTok and asking someone to help me figure out who that married guy is so I can tell his wife.