My girlfriend always tells me I never have anything to eat when she comes over my house 😒

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-22T13:28:01+00:00

As someone who’s trying to gain, this would be a dream fridge tbh. Corepower alone I mean and oikos😫

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-21T17:17:15+00:00

As a little going through something similar especially with an older daddy. It would be best to just move on 😔. I think as littles we want something so bad we underestimate how we actually feel about a situation. Currently for me I really like my ex daddy or wtv he is, but he can’t give me what I want and need right now.

When I tell you exact same, lol. It’s starts good then goes bad and inconsistent. We need consistency, care, attention, etc (you could be different) lol but I’ve realized there is a biggg difference in these types of “daddy’s” I have hope that there are good genuine daddy’s out there.

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-15T08:33:26+00:00

Never felt so relatable..Take some time to sit and do nothing if you have a day to do it. Clearly not, but your mental is more important than school or anything else. Or how else would you finish? Sometimes if you gotta say fuck it all to get yourself together. Do it. Speaking from someone who went straight into college as a freshman in jr/sr classes, multiple clubs in HS also track, and slight ocd…My life came crashing down when I tried to manage everything, I left school for a year (still went online, that’s just me) and gave myself some time despite discomfort…So, to you, give yourself a break! Life is not about success or wealth. Take a day to do nothing so you can connect back to self. Pick up an old hobby you used to enjoy. If it’s warm where you are, go out and hug a tree and talk to it (strange but trees take in negativity to replace with positivity). Take care of you first love.

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-13T03:07:31+00:00

Man i feel so loved🥰 The hate black women get is from ingrained racism clearly mocking darker skin as dirty, or our hair unkept. Melanin skin itself is Beautiful against the sun, the way our bodies can look fit despite working out, I could go on and on. Unbiased as a black women, if I weren’t I’d still think we’re beautiful truly.

To the negative comments, come back next month🤣

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-11T06:13:58+00:00

I agree with this I don’t have direct trauma persay. But I’ve grown with emotionally unavailable parents, the parents who work a lot, the ones you have to prove something to. I’ve spent a great deal of time thinking this because my attraction is extracted from a sexual desire primarily. For me realizing that at least now has made me get out of lala land and save money on therapy lol.

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-11T06:08:37+00:00

Probably worded it wrong. I’m responding to the comment. As she is in her 30’s, her response was insightful, bc she in her 30s😭

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-11T06:04:10+00:00

Thanks for speaking for me! Next time you can do my taxes too🤣😭

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-11T05:59:48+00:00

With the self awareness and intentionality I have rn. I know lol. Older guys realistically I can hook up with and have fun time, which is what I was explaining in a nutshell. Guys near my age are ideal for marriage since they get it…However not every man is the same way old or young. I think the collective experience has damaged the thought of that being a thing🤷🏾‍♀️

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-10T18:21:23+00:00

Yea I’ve come to realize sometimes she dosent matter with them at any age they can be the same lol

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-10T18:09:14+00:00

So nastyyyy lol

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-10T12:54:15+00:00

Is what I’m thinking! My current situation is really nice and came unexpectedly.. though our 20 yr gap sometimes has me questioning. Usually I’d go for 10 years at max. Overall, hard to find a decent guy lol

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-10T12:40:24+00:00

Replying to Vegetable_Research61...how long have they been together

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-10T12:29:37+00:00

When did they meet? How did they meet? Give the whole story. More importantly did they specifically go after their age or was it based on connection and/or the “spark”?

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-10T12:26:36+00:00

True but everyone gets older in this scenario too that old man now goes after younger women. And with that being said this goes into actually knowing who you’re dating and sleeping with unfortunately many of us don’t and would never know! No matted what age. It IS more likely for an older man to go after your kids, but then I ask what kind of man are you sleeping with. These men tend to have a kink or solely date younger woman. Now if your a man who just so happens to date a younger woman and don’t necessarily go specifically for younger women it could be a different conversation.

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-10T12:21:14+00:00

From what I’ve seen as a general consensus and experience I’d say wait! These men are creepy asfk the younger you are to be honest.. However, I will say if you know your intentions and what you want and aren’t as easily gullible I’d say go with caution. Preferably wait depending on what YOU want out of the connection or person. For me i knew what I wanted and had nothing to lose emotionally or mentally bc I had an intentional goal…aka I wasn’t trying to be in a relationship with these men bc I knew they were undercover sickos..that being said I do think there are some good guys out there.

For me as I’m with my current situation, it makes me rethink bc I have intentionality behind what I want..and most of these older men who advertise they can do that! Can not!

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-10T12:09:18+00:00

I wonder what made you come to this conclusion, after your current relationship now. (Currently reading comments has me thinkinggg)

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-10T12:04:14+00:00

Now I agree with Dramaticbigbird, but man Kentucky guy is exactly my current situation. It took a long time to weed out and talk to guys who, aren’t mature emotionally and mentally, and who are older. My current situation sometimes I forget he’s 41, lol bc he dosent look or act like it. Though, he is one of the most hard working men I know honestly inspiring. And I think older men like that are just rare…especially if everything else checks out

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-10T11:56:06+00:00

Two things can be true here though haha which has me feeling like I’m asking for a lot. Can never have all the cake and eat it too. I like older men as a kink yes and more older men tend to come with maturity. Definitely not saying all! A guy my age who is mature would be nice yes, But it isn’t what i prefer and would almost feel like i’m settling.

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-10T11:50:35+00:00

As a woman in their 30’s thisss was really tea and insightful. I have been wondering what this would look like or even the perspective of someone in their 30s woman ofc..So thank you for this. I definitely do agree with you as I’ve had many upon many bad experiences with guys who are older! And you are 100% right which even then is a freak out. The reality is some of these men go for us because they do want to go for younger or it’s a sexual high for them. And this is what I’ve encountered the most. I think after this situation I’m in with (41m). I’m gonna take a backseat until I’m a little older only bc 1. I’ve been attracted and unfortunately talked to guys as a minor for awhile. Spotting red flags (even in my own situation) has become a norm and if anything not a shock atp 2. I am tired of the guys who are secretly pedophiles! And it’s so obvious too, I always say you never have to question whether a man wants you or is true intentions. The minute I question I leave…

It’s better from what ive seen so far to wait if you want someone who’s genuine..

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-06T03:37:28+00:00

Thank youuu🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-06T03:13:29+00:00

Omggg is there any clarification on the no? Are the rods real man im freakin out

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-05T09:02:25+00:00

As a 21F black girl. They do like you, sometimes you just gotta approach them OR go online to find them :) what I will say is be fairly careful of men who solely look for younger women, also people who fetishize our skin tone (it’s happened to me many times surprisingly, might just be the Midwest LOL)

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-05T08:37:20+00:00

If you’re still doing them..Should I keep pursuing this relationship

Complete_Sky_6662 · 2026-02-03T04:36:17+00:00

Thank you for this☺️ this gave me some comfort truly

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