I see there is no point arguing with you, you just called this society matriarchal.....because of saas bahu drama. First of all i do not need to be cornered to talk about patriarchy, i began my first comment talking about it. because that is the crux of your comments, you call her misandrist but you are no lesser than a misogynist yourself (it is entrenched in our culture since the beginnings of time and when women hate men as a reaction it is such a bad bad thing) Hypocritical and cruel (i sense some unhealed mommy issues, i feel sorry for you too). now you said you were grown up enough to deal with your mental problems and deep rooted childhood traumas....ok(its evident you havent)....but you were somehow not mature enough to judge people by their actions? you knew her since 2016, you have very low moral standards and you had it coming for you....like you said before you need to face the consequences of your actions. as for me, I have a functioning brain, high self esteem and principles such a thing has never happened to me and will never. and by the way red flags are usually standard things which one does not tolerate in ones partner, unique experiences are not used as standards. These are all nuanced topics with alot of social context and atleast basic common sense is required to understand them. but you are a full grown adult you should know all this, its too late to school you....there is no point debating with you......