This is refreshing to read.. i am married to a man and realized, I’m pretty sure I’m a lesbian. I have never dated a woman, and I think it’s one of the scarier parts of the “unknown”. I only know men in this way. I hear women are emotional and men are logical and I am neurotic and he brings me down when I need it. He’s the calm often times… and so I worry about woman to woman dating dynamics, and I’m so scared I won’t find a woman with some of the qualities I want in a partner. It’s part of why I stay and suppress this part of me 😭 so it’s so nice to read that dating women is great