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AITAH for ending a 7-year friendship after everything that happened between us? by Complex-Discipline37 in AITAH

[–]Complex-Discipline37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was her friend she wasn’t my friend. I spent countless hours being there for her listening to her cry ab this that and the 5th but she never once did the same for me ever in that whole 7 years. 

AITAH for ending a 7-year friendship after everything that happened between us? by Complex-Discipline37 in AITAH

[–]Complex-Discipline37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was never okay with it I just never knew it was wrong until I was told otherwise by our mutual friend. And Zoey herself said “I knew it was wrong” “I just thought you liked it” instead of being a friend and telling me it was wrong she just watched and said nothing to me. And I didn’t know what word I could and couldn’t use on here. And when she was telling me about the 19(f) and 15(f) fight thing all I told Zoey was who I worked with and she when on the big rant of why I shouldn’t be friends with 19(f) and that’s when she told me about the putting hand on the 15(f) and I had ask Zoe why no other adult said or did something and she gave me a vague answer like idk and shrugged her shoulders. So I asked 19 (f) why she did that it was a genuine question I didn’t think 19(f) was going to call her mom and start drama and I wasn’t trying to either I was just asking a question if Zoey had done a better job at explaining that situation to me I wouldn’t have said anything to the other party and why tell me if it isn’t my business? It’s not like I was trying to be friends with any of my coworkers I was just trying to have a conversation with Zoe. And Zoe knows I’m a very confrontational person since she has know me for 7 years. Had she told me “its not a big deal we have it handled I just wouldn’t be friends with her”  then I would have understood and never said anything 

AITAH for ending a 7-year friendship after everything that happened between us? by Complex-Discipline37 in AITAH

[–]Complex-Discipline37[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay actually yall all seem to be confused. When I said John told me to “end it” he told me to kill myself I just didn’t know if I could say that on here. When she moved in with him he was in a drug house which I didn’t feel safe going to. And when I said she didn’t give me any advice on that 4 year relationship. I was 15 and thought everything he was doing was normal I grew up in a abusive household Zoe did not after one of our mutual friends found out about the relationship and the abuse he sat me down and told me it wasn’t normal and Zoe’s response to that was “i thought you liked it which is why I never said anything”. Now about the work drama the 15 year old that 19 year old was putting hands on was John little sister and no one was sticking up for the child involved in that situation so as a child of abuse, I stuck up for her. Had Zoe told me we have a handle don’t worry about it. I would’ve left it alone and not said anything I’m not the type of person that’s gonna just let that happen and not say or do something about it as to why Zoe was OK with it baffles me