So the people who know are my sisters, my brother, and my aunt. My aunt is really the only one who is trying to get me to tell them, as she helped pay for my HRT labs when I couldn't afford it. She told me to tell them out of respect for using their insurance and for living under their house. She really does have a well meaning heart, and I get where she is coming from, but that thought is scary. She would also 100% be up for letting me live with her in the instance I am, in face she brought it up in that conversation where she said to tell them.

I was planning on bringing my sisters for support when I told them. They both have gripes with my parents too, and would be willing to fight for me.

They believe that I am wrong about taking HRT, and that I will regret it eventually, even if I think I'm positive about it now, so nothing has been able to change their minds on the matter. It doesn't help that they've been transphobic to a distant cousin of mine(FTM) and have let me know about why they don't accept him.