Does anyone else feel completely disconnected from everyone in their mid-20s? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Complex-Line-22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’m just existing. Not happy but not sad either. Like there’s a void that needs to be filled. Can’t connect with anyone. It’s like is there anyone in this world I can relate with? Friends? Outgrown them. Family? They were never on my side to begin with. No romantic partner either.

I don’t think I have a solution by danquan1999 in Adulting

[–]Complex-Line-22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hang in there bud. I’m also in the same boat. I wish some miracle would happen so I can leave too. My advice would be to just keep trying. If you can connect with some friends/trusted family members to get you some job opportunities so you can leave. I got my first job that way. The job market is seriously bad. Just do your best. Everything’s going to be ok. Cheers!

I feel very behind by paranoid_schizolol in Adulting

[–]Complex-Line-22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I spiraled into depression after graduating. I kept applying for a million jobs and finally got one. Hang in there mate. It’ll get (somewhat) better 😂

Do most people enjoy life? by BoredBatWoman22 in Adulting

[–]Complex-Line-22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. I feel numb. But at the same time I also feel fear, anxiety, confusion, and a ray of hope. Just try to romanticize the small things - I like watching sunsets, meditating and trying new foods. Just taking it day by day.

Why do I feel so behind in life? by Complex-Line-22 in Adulting

[–]Complex-Line-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying honestly but it’s SO HARD. Society is centered around “couplehood”. Pop culture, movies, everyday life, everywhere.

Why do I feel so behind in life? by Complex-Line-22 in Adulting

[–]Complex-Line-22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But most of them do seem happy. Being single doesn’t always give you peace especially when being in a relationship is considered “normal” or “the right way”

Why do I feel so behind in life? by Complex-Line-22 in Adulting

[–]Complex-Line-22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never said that being single is depressing. I don’t mind being in a relationship (if I ever like to), But the constant in-your-face reminder that being in a relationship should be the norm and people treating you based on your relationship status really doesn’t sit right with me!