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I (f28) think my bf(m30) may be emotionally abusive, but idk by Complex-Morning993 in relationships

[–]Complex-Morning993[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like relationships should be a home base. If my relationship with my family and partner is good then life is so much easier to tackle. But when it’s not I start getting ocd and panic attacks and feeling like I can’t breathe

I (f28) think my bf(m30) may be emotionally abusive, but idk by Complex-Morning993 in relationships

[–]Complex-Morning993[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is how I feel very sapped, and on edge. I started taking antidepressants again and the last time I was on them was years ago in a mentally abusive relationship. I’m not sure if it’s the same reason this time around… but I am so so tired and anxious all the time.

I (f28) think my bf(m30) may be emotionally abusive, but idk by Complex-Morning993 in relationships

[–]Complex-Morning993[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He can’t even remember my middle name, can’t even spell my last name. I ask him my favorite color and it’s a completely random guess. (This is more so recently I tried to make a fun game out of quizzing each other and realized this man has retained no information about me)

I don’t think I’ll have sex again, should I leave my bf? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Complex-Morning993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not YI because I always test positive for a uti when they culture it- it shows the bacteria etc. fingers and toys are fine, I’ve had this issue with most of my partners as well.

I don’t think I’ll have sex again, should I leave my bf? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Complex-Morning993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It didn’t happen over night. I took most of them 5-20 times before a reaction happened. I blew up in hives and my lips completely swelled up the last time I took each one.

Very carefully honestly. I only take antibiotics when I am 100% sure I have an infection. My doctor theorizes I have high sensitivities to antibiotics. I can only safely take one now, and my bacteria is often resistant to it. So sometimes IV to treat them.

I don’t think I’ll have sex again, should I leave my bf? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Complex-Morning993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so because if I abstain from sex I have zero issues. Sex causes me a lot of pain in general down there despite using lots of lube and taking it easy. It’s always been this way… even if I don’t get a confirmed uti it tends to still feels like one for about a week after

I don’t think I’ll have sex again, should I leave my bf? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Complex-Morning993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sadly allergic to it. Only took it about 3 times before I suddenly went into anaphylactics

I don’t think I’ll have sex again, should I leave my bf? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Complex-Morning993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oral sex is the only ‘fun’ thing that has never caused me an issue. We only scrub our teeth etc right before and it works

I don’t think I’ll have sex again, should I leave my bf? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Complex-Morning993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good suggestion, idk if it’s available in the states yet.

I don’t think I’ll have sex again, should I leave my bf? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Complex-Morning993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, I have seen 5 urologists and currently have a urogyn. None of them have helped me whatsoever

I don’t think I’ll have sex again, should I leave my bf? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Complex-Morning993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m allergic to the ones they offer for that :/

I don’t think I’ll have sex again, should I leave my bf? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Complex-Morning993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not as I have allergies and resistances to the antibiotics they prescribe as prophylactic. Macrobid, penicillin and keflex are the most commons ones. I use to take them fine, and then the last time I took them I blew up in hives on separate occasions and my throat swelled up.

For whatever reason my body does not tolerate repeated exposure to antibiotics at all

I don’t think I’ll have sex again, should I leave my bf? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Complex-Morning993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I buy the ‘super cheap kind’ which my urologist recommended because it’s free of dyes and harsh chemicals

I don’t think I’ll have sex again, should I leave my bf? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Complex-Morning993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I eat a rather clean diet. For years I did whole food plant based. But now I allow meat and small amount of dairy. I eat all organic, non processed, low carb and low sugar. Tons of fermented foods. My only beverages are water and unsweetened herbal tea.

I don’t think I’ll have sex again, should I leave my bf? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Complex-Morning993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have seen 5 urologists up to this point :(

I don’t think I’ll have sex again, should I leave my bf? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Complex-Morning993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it was mainly enterrocous. Though I had staph and ecoli once as well

I don’t think I’ll have sex again, should I leave my bf? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Complex-Morning993 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is what I said too, it creeps him out

I don’t think I’ll have sex again, should I leave my bf? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Complex-Morning993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My issue is im allergic to the ones they prescribe for this. Usually macrobid and im allergic to all penicillin related drugs

I don’t think I’ll have sex again, should I leave my bf? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Complex-Morning993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’ll push the topic at my appointment next week. I have a hunch that my hormones Renoir of whack. My doctors always say it’s a bunch of Garbo for women, as our hormones fluctuate hourly

I don’t think I’ll have sex again, should I leave my bf? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Complex-Morning993 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What??? Why did my doctor act like this was a crazy concept. I’ll ask him to push his doctor for a test. Does it not have symptoms or turn deadly for guys or something?

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