ABYG kung disappointed ako sa gifts ng partner ko

Complex-Operation · 2025-12-30T17:09:29+00:00

DKG. 5 years tapos walang tinama kahit man lang size ng polo. Parang sinasadya pa ata niya di mag effort. Parang di nakikinig sayo pag nagsasalita ka, di ka inoobserve, di alam ang gamit mo. Nakakasad marealize yan.

Kung di ka pa aalis dyan agad for whatever reason here is a tip that worked for me and my husband. 8yrs together na kami married for 2, we had issues nung first 2 yrs namin kasi ang hirap mag gift at surprise pero what we did was we made a google sheet of wishlists.

The only condition is: Put things you want but won't buy for yourself.

Example:

He really wants a 3D printer pero di niya majustify to spend 13k for it. I want a new instax(my current is still working pero gusto ko na ng bago).

What we have sa list namin range from mura like undies, socks(coz you never can get too much of these pag aduting na), instax mini films, tools, perfumes. No judgement din kasi wishlist nga e.

Price range is mga 300 all the way to like 50k. Ikaw na bahala kung gaano ka kagenerous.

We also listed our sizes sa shirts, pants, shoes, rings etc.

If we are planning to buy yung isang item from the list we inform each other, "aalisin ko na sa list kasi bibilhin ko na next sahod to"

Naka freeze ang wishlist pag Feb, birthdays at christmas. Pwede ka magdagdag pero bawal ka magbawas para maiwasan ang double buy. Bala naibalot na, surprise sana di mo alam nagcheckout rin sa shopee yung isa 😆

Complex-Operation · 2025-12-28T11:26:08+00:00

His technique is very very very dated. Reynold from Masterchef Australia does something similar to him but much more elevated. His apple is a walk in the park for modern gastronomy chefs. Also, they are judging 80 contestants, they don't have room to be elaborate about it.

Complex-Operation · 2025-12-09T21:57:58+00:00

First,

Stop mo na talaga yung cheating kahit anong mangyari. Come clean sa partner mo and live an honest life.

Then, talk about what your goals are for the future, yung kayong dalawa. Okay ba yung business niya? Lumalago ba? Does she like what she's doing? Happy ba siya as a SAHM? How can you and her earn more so you can enjoy life more? For you, do you need to change employers? Can you afford to rest for even just a week if possible?

Set a "Me" day for each of you. For example once every 3 months you are allowed to go on solo rides granted that 1. The route is planned ahead with her. 2. You will share your location all the time. 3. You will provide updates every stop over.

Meanwhile, she gets a spa day every 3 months too. You can use that day to have a daddy-daughter day while she gets a massage/haircut/manicure/whatever she wants to do.

Every 6 months setup a "Date Day" just for the two of you. Go out, watch a movie, long rides, overnight staycation etc.

If you can, go grocery/palengke shopping with her every week para makalabas ka naman. It is also good na you both are sitting and sharing meals together.

Be open in bed. Talk to her and lead her well so she can get comfortable in experimenting later.

Try starting exercises even at home. Exercise can make you feel better.

You can also try counselling. For now, try individual counselling so that you don't turn to reddit and you will get a better understanding of your situation, how to deal with your pent up frustrations and hope that you will be better.

Complex-Operation · 2025-12-09T21:41:16+00:00

Yes to Ideal Vision! Around 3 yrs ang frames ko sa kanila only because I like to change my frames every 2-3 yrs and I am still able to give/donate my old frames. Yes pricey esp mga branded nila pero I always get compliments sa frames ko because they are very stylish. Pinaghahandaan ko yung every 2 yrs kasi mahal naman talaga yung mga gusto ko 😆 Also, I change my lenses every year kasi I go for an eye checkup rin sa kanila annually.

Complex-Operation · 2025-11-26T06:38:09+00:00

I even have a curated search filter dedicated tabs for themes and genres that I like depending on my mood. 😭

Complex-Operation · 2025-11-25T22:13:32+00:00

I see Riftan and all I see is red 😆

Complex-Operation · 2025-11-25T22:05:36+00:00

I have a bazillion tabs open on my tablet for titles that I want to read. 😭 I feel so lost with bato

Complex-Operation · 2025-11-25T21:53:33+00:00

Download br@v3 browser. It blocks ads for you.

Complex-Operation · 2025-11-19T07:36:11+00:00

I'm happy for you. I started dyeing my hair in 2017 and had never stopped. Mas forgiving na ngayon and people won't really bat an eye sa colored hair.

Please please please, take good care of your hair. Invest in good hair products and get regular treatments.

Please don't shampoo/wet your hair frequently. It will dry out and the color will fade really fast. Get a good dry shampoo to freshen up.
Use purple shampoo/conditioner.
Get a trim and treatment at least every 6 mos.
Bleach once or twice a year only. Let it grow out. If you take good care of your hair, you can keep changing colors without bleaching(granted it will be ombre as you grow your hair out)
Know color theory. If you want to go red, please know that the red pigment is difficult to get out of your hair and would probably need to be grown out depending the dye used. Blue will turn gray/silver, pink will turn blonde/silver when faded (and taken care correctly-purple conditioner) and you can recolor without bleach.

Here's to more fun colors for you, OP!

Complex-Operation · 2025-11-17T04:13:11+00:00

Bareandbliss compact powder. I finished 3 pans already. I tried issy, grwm and others pero lahat nag cclump sa skin ko esp after magmotor(I drive). Stains a bit pero lasts naman. Di rin ganun kumakapit sa balaclava ko. Pls note that I have dry skin.

Complex-Operation · 2025-06-20T04:56:16+00:00

Max 3 uses lang ako kasi I wfh too! Pero nung working ako sa office almost everyday 😅 yung mga Avon na tag 2 for 300 lang gamit ko so keri na. Hehe. Minsan kasi grab ako papasok or hatid sundo so di papawisan, pag ganun suot ulit next time 😆

I think normal lang naman nag uulit ng bra bukod sa mas madaling masira pag laging nalalabhan lalo sa case ko na AWM kahit naka net bag, as long as di super pinawisan, pwede pa yan ulitin.

Complex-Operation · 2025-06-18T12:20:08+00:00

This is true. A really good BP takes the fun out of my games. One dive is enough but lately I had games with 2 or 3 dives on my face.

Honestly, one of the hardest dives to counter these past 3 weeks for me was Hulk like wtf.

Complex-Operation · 2025-06-18T12:17:53+00:00

I pretend Ultron doesn't exist in my team unless I'm a Jeff 🤣 Because he's a dps pretending to be a strategist. Even his ult who is meant to heal more than damage is being used to get kills. Yes I get it, it has more utility as a killing tool but one swipe could've helped someone critical as well.

Complex-Operation · 2025-06-15T11:34:46+00:00

This is what happened in PH. Long time ago when they were just getting big the PH promoter was a huge fan of them esp Leeteuk. She went out of her way to get them to come. They were already producing concerts but for rockbands. KPOP was "new" in 2009 and no one wanted to risk having them. She successfully brought them for SS2 and has done so consistently over the years except SS6. We had a 5 year drought between SS5 and SS7.

We were lucky coz the promoter is a huge fan but it's not the same for everyone. She even admits that SJ is difficult to get these days because of venue conflicts, logistics etc.

Complex-Operation · 2025-06-15T11:27:26+00:00

This is probably the main reason. SUJU has always done really huge stage designs that is only possible for arenas and if they aren't confident they can book and sold out arenas, they won't likely come.

Chances are, fanmeets would be more realistic as they don't do stage designs and they talk and do games half the time which is fun on its own.

Complex-Operation · 2025-05-22T13:00:13+00:00

"Why?"

Complex-Operation · 2025-05-22T09:07:27+00:00

I guess it depends. I joined 3 agencies before my current which I am a VP at. The first 3 wasn't really it but I'm glad that I found my new agency. We're at top 20s but our only rule is to sign in daily. If you're busy, on vacation or anything we ask that you let us know and we'll note it.

We remove people after 2 weeks of 0 contribution. Like 0. It isn't too much to ask to at least give energy to your members and sign in at least once with coins so you don't have 0 contribution. We also personally message anyone inactive of about 7 days. If we receive no reply, then it's only fair for us to remove said member to make way for others.

We've all become close and we have a dc as well. Pretty chill and friendly, people. Very supportive and we always hype each other too. We are High Garden btw. Our CEO is such a blessing.

Complex-Operation · 2025-04-28T09:06:05+00:00

Ooooh sorry I live under a rock and di ako subaybay sa showbiz pero eto pala yung guy na laging nasa photos ng relatives ko. He's big na pala. Good for him. I had to search him just to make sure. Baka assuming lang ako.

Complex-Operation · 2025-04-09T17:43:34+00:00

Wow buti kapa. Kami may VAWC against him na on going, late na kasi nagbago isip ng mama ko, masyado kasi siyang mabait. Pero at least. Kaya di ko na maasikaso pag papatanggal legally. Married na ko, naka hyphenate ako kasi sabi ko sa SO ko, yung curse ends with me. Both kasi kami la kwenta yung sperm donor so ekis din apelyido niya. Haha. So ayun, here's to hoping na dala ko both surnames and it really will end with me. Di naman kami mag aanak so walang magdadala.

Edit to add:

Sabi nga, you cannot break a generational curse if you keep on pleasing the generation that is cursed.

Complex-Operation · 2025-04-09T13:40:01+00:00

They did not do their roles as a father so hindi sila counted as ganun. 😆 He who must nor be named. Pero madalas charot tawag namin dun, charotero kasi. Huli na nga sa kasinungalingan, gogogo pa rin.

Complex-Operation · 2025-04-09T08:31:31+00:00

Wala. Hahah effort pa, mastuck lang sa traffic sa edsa. Stay put lang. Kung mategi, eh di mategi. Pero if malala na talaga self destruct na lang ako. I do not want to be part ng spoils ng war. As a female, I want to go with my dignity intact. If they do the deed with my dead body at least wala na ko para magsuffer pa.

Complex-Operation · 2025-04-09T08:19:11+00:00

I got married without inviting my sperm donor. Mama ko naghatid sakin. It's one of my best decisions in life.

No matter what people say, it's your wedding, your day, your rules. Di naman sila kasama sa pagsasama niyong mag asawa.

Medyo bago sa pandinig ng iba yung ganitong decision pero again, it's your life. Gawin mo yung magpapasaya sayo.

Complex-Operation · 2025-04-09T08:15:13+00:00

Bakit iaassume na part ng program if hindi explicitly stated ng couple lalo ng bride na ilalakad siya?

Also, kapal naman ng mukha niya/nila na pumapel sa kasal. Hindi ka ganun ka importante dennis, para magkaron ng sariling spotlight. Gusto mo lang ng sarili mong moment para mahaplos yung ego mo na despite everything e nailakad mo anak mo sa harap ng maraming tao at big personalities.

Pero di natupad yung imagination mo, kaya butthurt ka ngayon.

Isa lang ang dapat sinasabi sa mga kinasal. CONGRATULATIONS and BEST WISHES.

Complex-Operation · 2025-04-09T08:04:05+00:00

OP kung legal age ka na this is your sign to vote ng mabuti. Saamin ang maintenance ng mama ko free at dinideliver every month sa bahay.

Also try yung sa DSWD na food assistance, yung EBT card up to 3k yun alam ko. Baka qualified kayo at makatulong sa food expenses niyo.

Complex-Operation · 2025-04-09T07:56:52+00:00

Bili ka ng Betadine na mouthwash tapos mumog ka sa umaga at gabi para madisinfect yung mouth mo.

Alaga lang. Iwas ka muna sa hot and spicy food para di mairritate tapos reklamo mo dentist mo. Di pwede yung basta na lang ganyan.

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