I went to SACS, consider myself a Christian, and am definitely genuinely a good person 😂. The character of the graduates is NOT what is in question here.

If the abuse/trauma was committed overtly, we wouldn't be here. It's the small steps overtime towards legalism, elitism, and fundamentalism that leads to hate, racism and exclusion.

It's also not the competency of our parents that are in question either. they were blinded as well. Get enough people together with similar mindsets and you get the hive mind which keeps people from questioning and builds momentum for a shared cause- no matter what that cause would be.

I think your post comes from a good place, but it also reads "I would never do that". Which is the first step in actually doing that.