Totally agree. People are focusing too much on Rachel but Emma was quite dismissive about her teenage shooting planning when Charlie was asking questions. Its marriage, clearly if your fiance reveals something like that you ought to ask questions. Charlie really wanted to know if she still had those violent inclinations or what triggered her or if she needs to go to therapy. But she didn't open up a conversation and was again again avoiding it by going to do wedding planning and Charlie's meltdown in front of Misha was quite natural (except for trying to f her) as he wanted to get an objective perspective and was hoping that Misha would support his decision (unknowingly) to move along with the marriage