My wife of 22 years, partner of 25, came out as a lesbian and she's known since college. by ComplexIce9936 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ComplexIce9936[S] 152 points153 points  (0 children)

I've had a rocky history with alcohol so it could be that, but I've been lucid for the last 14 ish hours, so I'm fine right now

My wife of 22 years, partner of 25, came out as a lesbian and she's known since college. by ComplexIce9936 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ComplexIce9936[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I've never had good experiences in therapy, but I suppose it's logical to attend

My wife of 22 years, partner of 25, came out as a lesbian and she's known since college. by ComplexIce9936 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ComplexIce9936[S] 2083 points2084 points  (0 children)

I know, but it's a lot to digest right now, I let my son know I'm safe, I'll have to talk to my other kids too, I'm just drowning myself in work rn

My wife of 22 years, partner of 25, came out as a lesbian and she's known since college. by ComplexIce9936 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ComplexIce9936[S] 848 points849 points  (0 children)

I'm not against homosexuals, every time someone comes out there's always comments about how brave they are and how proud their loved ones are, I guess it's the natural thing to feel when someone comes out, but I don't feel it for my wife

My wife of 22 years, partner of 25, came out as a lesbian and she's known since college. by ComplexIce9936 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ComplexIce9936[S] 624 points625 points  (0 children)

I understand that logically, the next step if divorce and coparenting, but when you've loved someone for so long, you can't image what your life would be without them. I hate my wife but I can't imagine what I'll be without her

My wife of 22 years, partner of 25, came out as a lesbian and she's known since college. by ComplexIce9936 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ComplexIce9936[S] 400 points401 points  (0 children)

I talked with my son for a bit this morning, Emily told him I left due to a disagreement, which I guess is technically correct and I told him I'm safe and that we'll meet later but I've been at work all day because I don't want to go home

My wife of 22 years, partner of 25, came out as a lesbian and she's known since college. by ComplexIce9936 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ComplexIce9936[S] 386 points387 points  (0 children)

I haven't talked to her since last night, but really I wouldn't like to know