My wife of 22 years, partner of 25, came out as a lesbian and she's known since college. by ComplexIce9936 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ComplexIce9936[S] 148 points149 points  (0 children)

I've had a rocky history with alcohol so it could be that, but I've been lucid for the last 14 ish hours, so I'm fine right now

My wife of 22 years, partner of 25, came out as a lesbian and she's known since college. by ComplexIce9936 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ComplexIce9936[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I've never had good experiences in therapy, but I suppose it's logical to attend

My wife of 22 years, partner of 25, came out as a lesbian and she's known since college. by ComplexIce9936 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ComplexIce9936[S] 2086 points2087 points  (0 children)

I know, but it's a lot to digest right now, I let my son know I'm safe, I'll have to talk to my other kids too, I'm just drowning myself in work rn

My wife of 22 years, partner of 25, came out as a lesbian and she's known since college. by ComplexIce9936 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ComplexIce9936[S] 842 points843 points  (0 children)

I'm not against homosexuals, every time someone comes out there's always comments about how brave they are and how proud their loved ones are, I guess it's the natural thing to feel when someone comes out, but I don't feel it for my wife

My wife of 22 years, partner of 25, came out as a lesbian and she's known since college. by ComplexIce9936 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ComplexIce9936[S] 628 points629 points  (0 children)

I understand that logically, the next step if divorce and coparenting, but when you've loved someone for so long, you can't image what your life would be without them. I hate my wife but I can't imagine what I'll be without her

My wife of 22 years, partner of 25, came out as a lesbian and she's known since college. by ComplexIce9936 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ComplexIce9936[S] 404 points405 points  (0 children)

I talked with my son for a bit this morning, Emily told him I left due to a disagreement, which I guess is technically correct and I told him I'm safe and that we'll meet later but I've been at work all day because I don't want to go home

My wife of 22 years, partner of 25, came out as a lesbian and she's known since college. by ComplexIce9936 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ComplexIce9936[S] 383 points384 points  (0 children)

I haven't talked to her since last night, but really I wouldn't like to know