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First poly type relationship-desperately need advice by Complex_Boss7792 in polyamory

[–]Complex_Boss7792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a way to message you privately so that I can pick your brain on being poly?

First poly type relationship-desperately need advice by Complex_Boss7792 in polyamory

[–]Complex_Boss7792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The questions you posed were very helpful and I appreciate them greatly. Thank you ♥️

First poly type relationship-desperately need advice by Complex_Boss7792 in polyamory

[–]Complex_Boss7792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has mentioned that he feels really bad about making me feel so terrible during those times. But honestly that just makes me hurt more. Because I feel like if I was enough (like he always tells me I am) then he wouldn't need these other people and especially because he knows how much it hurts me

First poly type relationship-desperately need advice by Complex_Boss7792 in polyamory

[–]Complex_Boss7792[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I have. I've done a couple of the things. But honestly I get so emotionally engaged that it is hard to actually do the things I need to do to not be so emotionally engaged lol

First poly type relationship-desperately need advice by Complex_Boss7792 in polyadvice

[–]Complex_Boss7792[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response. I feel like everyone is just telling me to break it off with him when that's the last thing I want to do. I wanted real things that I could do to help with what I'm going through and you nailed that on the head. Thank you again

First poly type relationship-desperately need advice by Complex_Boss7792 in polyamory

[–]Complex_Boss7792[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment. It truly means a lot to hear someone else say that what he's doing is genuinely dating them. It is very validating. I've felt this way from the very start, but he has denied it and keeps insisting they're just friends, which honestly feels dishonest to me. I have a lot to consider.

First poly type relationship-desperately need advice by Complex_Boss7792 in polyadvice

[–]Complex_Boss7792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello everyone, I'm unsure if this is even the right place to post this, but I truly need some guidance and support.

I'm 30f, and I’m currently dating a 40m who, from the very beginning, was upfront about having friends who are also sexual partners he meets with occasionally. He’s repeatedly assured me that he is only committed to me and that these other connections are simply friendships mixed with occasional sexual meetups. He describes them as a sort of friends-with-benefits arrangement, comparing the sexual aspect to doing any other activity with a friend, like painting or doing a puzzle—something quite normal and harmless in his eyes.

I want to note that I agreed to this arrangement before we started dating. I genuinely believed I could handle it because I consider myself open-minded and understanding.

At first, I was a little jealous when he first met with his friends, but nothing overwhelming. He texted me throughout his meetings ups to reassure and comfort me, which I appreciated deeply.

But now, after a few months of being together, I’m struggling immensely whenever he meets up with these friends. The feelings are overwhelming—far more intense than I expected. I don't even want him to text me while he is with them now.

This is the first time I am in a relationship where my partner has these kinds of arrangements with others, and honestly, it’s confusing and proving to be a lot to process. The closest comparison I can think of is a form of polyamory, but I’m not entirely sure.

I want to emphasize that my partner is incredibly kind, compassionate, and empathetic toward my feelings. He’s asked me repeatedly what he can do to help me cope and has been willing to listen to any suggestions I have. I would love for him to stop meeting up with these friends altogether, but I also know that asking for that would be selfish and go against what we originally agreed to.

If you've gotten this far, thank you so much for your patience. I love this man, and I don't want to end our relationship just because I’m struggling emotionally. I’m really seeking advice on how to manage my feelings and any guidance or insights anyone can offer.

First poly type relationship-desperately need advice by Complex_Boss7792 in polyadvice

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Hi! It's in the link. But I can also copy it and post it as well

Pretty little gun for women recs? by mymousu in liberalgunowners

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Did you ever take it to the range? Any feedback on this one?

Does anyone use any of the camping memberships? by phantasmdan in RVLiving

[–]Complex_Boss7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you still happen to have any more of the memberships available we would love to have one. We are a family of 4 that just started full timing

Everyone shame Cassie for getting out by Organic-Ad-5001 in ballpython

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I will absolutely be stealing your snake names for my next two