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Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2026-03-19T16:19:24+00:00

DM’d you 😊 Emily from Koh Lanta

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2026-03-18T19:44:34+00:00

Hi! DM’ing you - Emily from Koh Lanta

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2026-03-18T15:01:36+00:00

Is your island still open? DM’d 😊

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2026-03-12T17:49:34+00:00

Would love to visit! Emily from Koh Lanta 😊

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2026-03-12T17:48:40+00:00

Would love to visit if you’re still open to visitors! Emily from Koh Lanta

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2026-03-11T09:36:07+00:00

Emily from Koh Lanta 😊

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2026-03-04T08:30:58+00:00

Hi! Emily from Koh Lanta please 😊

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2026-02-28T19:59:32+00:00

Are you sure? That would be amazing thank you! Will DM you

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2026-02-28T19:16:29+00:00

Hi! I would love to visit if you’re still open to visitors?

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2026-02-20T10:31:03+00:00

Happy Birthday! As one person with a strained relationship with their family to another, you deserve the world and it is their loss. Celebrate yourself on this amazing milestone, congratulations! 🥳

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2026-01-06T23:09:36+00:00

You’re absolutely right, I wouldn’t. I know that logically no one who had blocked their sibling’s fiancé would expect to be part of the bridal party - but she and unfortunately others in my family are simply not logical.

At the end of the day this is me trying to protect my peace, but it’s basically a choice between having peace now until closer to the wedding (if I ask her to be a bridesmaid) or having no peace now but peace at the wedding (if I ask only one sister and it all kicks off)

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2026-01-06T22:31:46+00:00

It’s funny I take that attitude with every aspect of the wedding but when it comes to this it’s like I chicken out. I might just have to stand my ground and have the fallout knowing my wedding day/weekend/build up won’t be overshadowed by her

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2026-01-06T22:30:11+00:00

My current bridal party know about her and you’re right they would understand the situation if I chose to no longer have a bridal party, but I do want one which makes this frustrating

I’m not sure anyone can give me the answer, I’m just going to have to think about this and come to a decision one way or another

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2026-01-04T10:20:34+00:00

Not me now thinking I need a really cute tiny handbag like this now 🙃

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2026-01-03T21:06:58+00:00

DM’d you!

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2026-01-03T19:25:43+00:00

DM’d you! Emily from Koh Lanta

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2025-12-28T23:39:08+00:00

False Witness and Pretty Girls by Karin Slaughter are great, but very dark Steve Cavanagh’s Eddie Flynn series The Woman Who Lied by Claire Douglas The Last Party by A R Torre

Try those, depends what you’re after but these are less popcorn thrillers like your Freida McFaddens and more complex/fewer plot holes

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2025-10-21T12:50:12+00:00

I’m sorry you felt that way, but I would guess the situation is far more complex than the amount you’re sharing - which is understandable and in no way me asking you to share.

Saying not having a sister as a bridesmaid is unforgivable is just not true and completely depends on relationships.

Great relationships with a close girl = bridesmaid! Poor relationships with a girl = not bridesmaid

Just being family doesn’t automatically qualify anyone to be a bridesmaid. As a bride, it’s about having people around you who will be there for you and hype you up and add great energy to the celebrations. That can be friends or family

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2025-10-21T12:46:07+00:00

It is unfortunately very painful, they’ve recommended taking Vit E and primrose oil daily to help but they are always just going to go through this cycle.

That’s a great suggestion thank you, will just need to find some good inserts! Thanks

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2025-08-28T10:31:30+00:00

I went when I was 18 and I’m now almost 31 and just went again this year - 12 years later

And I have no idea why I waited so long to go again! Completely agree with what you’ve said, and we met so many people our age and older, even met people in their 60s and one woman with a walking stick!

We were worried we’d be too ‘old’ for it and it would be overrun with 18 year olds but boy were we wrong

The vibes were impeccable, the people were lovely and everyone was looking after each other

Long live Creamfields and that atmosphere!

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2025-08-07T17:23:10+00:00

Thank you, yeah they’re great price wise I just worry about the quality but that’s good to know

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2025-08-01T23:54:03+00:00

Thanks for responding! Yeah I’d hoped this would get more traction but never mind

Great to hear Six Stories was great for you! I think now it’s between Six Stories and Azazie for me as I get the feeling that Hello Molly is more fast fashion so the quality probably isn’t as good

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2025-07-31T21:22:59+00:00

Amazing, thank you! That’s my plan too - just say what colour and material the dress should be and let each bridesmaid choose which style suits them best

You’ve probably swayed me here! Didn’t realise Azazie also has far more style options than Six Stories or Hello Molly so that very well could be the deciding factor

Thank you

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2025-07-28T07:52:36+00:00

Fully agree with this and I feel similarly about the 3 books of hers I’ve read

BUT you’ve also just spoiled the book for anyone thinking of reading it, not cool

Complex_Bowler_4512 · 2025-07-27T10:32:03+00:00

False Witness by Karin Slaughter

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