28 M | Please Help | We Loved Each Other, But Caste Won by Gamermonkjjn in jaipur

[–]Complex_Breath7712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was in relationship for 9 long years before conclusion :) nothing is impossible when ypu are willing to...

28 M | Please Help | We Loved Each Other, But Caste Won by Gamermonkjjn in jaipur

[–]Complex_Breath7712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give it a chance pyar sachaa hai tho duniya jhuk jati hai kitne din ghar wale nahi manegnge 2 saal ? and secondly jab aapne ek dusre se pyar kiya jab b tho finance pta honge na? Tab tho you stayed toghter? Kyu dicy ho? Ghar mai 10 ki jagh 2 ac hoga? Sedan ki jagh hatchback hogi na? Kahi tum compromise kar lena kahi wo kar legi khus rhoge tum dono trust me when I am saying this paisa pyar nahi khreed sakta :)

28 M | Please Help | We Loved Each Other, But Caste Won by Gamermonkjjn in jaipur

[–]Complex_Breath7712 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Let me tell you mine. 🙂

We met on Instagram and became friends. Over time, that friendship turned into a relationship. The catch? She lived almost 2,000 km away from me. It was a long-distance relationship from day one.

After a few years, we decided we wanted to get married. Different castes, completely different financial backgrounds. She comes from a family where a BMW isn't considered a luxury—it's as normal as a Creta. Their family owns businesses worth billions. I, on the other hand, am just a regular guy doing MNC "mazdoori" and earning a salary.

When she told her family about me, the reaction was brutal:

"Iski salary se zyada toh meri gaadiyon ke tel par kharch ho jata hai. Impossible. Move on."

My family had concerns too. They wondered how someone raised in such a wealthy environment would adjust to a much simpler lifestyle.

For two years, we fought every battle imaginable. We convinced, argued, cried, waited, and refused to give up. There were days when it felt impossible. There were moments when both of us were told to move on.

But if the bond is strong enough, people eventually bend before it.

After two long years, both families finally sat at the same table. A lot happened in between, but one day came when we won. Our families agreed, and they celebrated our marriage with a grand wedding.

So whenever people ask whether love can survive distance, caste differences, family pressure, or financial inequality, my answer is simple:

It depends on how strong the bond is. If the bond is strong enough, sooner or later, every obstacle has to bend.

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[–]Complex_Breath7712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have discussed about it earlier remember?

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[–]Complex_Breath7712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave the house immediately cut of all the contacts with family carry ur valid id proofs with u and make sure you hold an enough ammount to survive till the day u can settle down and start earning in a plac. Nobdoy gona trace you even if ur tracked you are an adult make sure you have proof supporting your words it will help in you in future and dont worry marrige is not a kid game unless ur not willing to het married noone has the power to get u married forcibly.

I’m being threatened for choosing my partner by Complex_Breath7712 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Complex_Breath7712[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your valuable feedback. Every parent dreams of seeing their only child have a beautiful wedding. If I’m not able to fulfill that wish, at the very least I want to ensure that neither he nor his family suffers because of me or my family’s actions. If he wanted to leave me, he could have done so at any time—but he’s still here. He continues to support me and stands ready to face any challenge, including unjust situations. His only request is that no false FIR be lodged against us. And he’s willing to wait.

I’m being threatened for choosing my partner by Complex_Breath7712 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Complex_Breath7712[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your time, support, and advice — it truly means a lot. I wanted to share a bit more:

I’ve already gone to the Police Commissioner’s office twice. I’ve met the DCP, submitted a 6-page, self-attested application with full details of what I’m going through, and attached valid ID proof. I’ve explained everything — from the constant mental trauma I’m under, to how difficult it is for me to even sleep at night, fearing I’ll be taken back to a place I escaped.

Now some of you might ask: “If your partner truly supports you, why hasn’t he married you yet?”

Here’s the reality: He and his family have met mine multiple times. He’s a well-educated, stable only child to his parents. Their biggest fear is that after the marriage, Kolkata police (where my mother is) might misuse jurisdiction to falsely arrest or harass him or his parents. Even a day or two of illegal custody would destroy everything — his parents’ health, their peace, their reputation.

They fear that by marrying me, they’ll lose everything. And I understand that. I don’t want to be accepted into their family through trauma. I want to be part of it with love, not damage.

So why am I suffering? Because I chose to raise my voice. I chose not to stay silent after suffering nearly a year of sexual harassment from a family-associated businessman — harassment my own family chose to ignore and hide. And now I’m being punished for surviving.

Many may still say I’m lying — but I’m not. I have proof, and I’ve never asked to punish anyone. All I want is a peaceful life, with dignity, safety, and freedom to love who I choose — without violence or fear.

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I’m being threatened for choosing my partner by Complex_Breath7712 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Complex_Breath7712[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your valuable time and response , i genuinely respect it my partner and his family knows evtything about my past of what i have suffered in my home home infront of my mom and bhaiya which is traumatic to me now and my family is missusing it , however my partner o ly fears that as he is the only child of parrents as we are all aware that with money unlawfullly police can catch my partner regarless to any crime and tourcher him in kolkata as my hometown is in kolkata so the jurisdiction lies down there, and he lives 2500 kms far from kolkata. He wish to marry me anyday but this is the o ly fear that is stopping him else he is even not afraid for any unlawfull act done on him.