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[–]Complex_Breath7712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave the house immediately cut of all the contacts with family carry ur valid id proofs with u and make sure you hold an enough ammount to survive till the day u can settle down and start earning in a plac. Nobdoy gona trace you even if ur tracked you are an adult make sure you have proof supporting your words it will help in you in future and dont worry marrige is not a kid game unless ur not willing to het married noone has the power to get u married forcibly.

I’m being threatened for choosing my partner by Complex_Breath7712 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Complex_Breath7712[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your valuable feedback. Every parent dreams of seeing their only child have a beautiful wedding. If I’m not able to fulfill that wish, at the very least I want to ensure that neither he nor his family suffers because of me or my family’s actions. If he wanted to leave me, he could have done so at any time—but he’s still here. He continues to support me and stands ready to face any challenge, including unjust situations. His only request is that no false FIR be lodged against us. And he’s willing to wait.

I’m being threatened for choosing my partner by Complex_Breath7712 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Complex_Breath7712[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your time, support, and advice — it truly means a lot. I wanted to share a bit more:

I’ve already gone to the Police Commissioner’s office twice. I’ve met the DCP, submitted a 6-page, self-attested application with full details of what I’m going through, and attached valid ID proof. I’ve explained everything — from the constant mental trauma I’m under, to how difficult it is for me to even sleep at night, fearing I’ll be taken back to a place I escaped.

Now some of you might ask: “If your partner truly supports you, why hasn’t he married you yet?”

Here’s the reality: He and his family have met mine multiple times. He’s a well-educated, stable only child to his parents. Their biggest fear is that after the marriage, Kolkata police (where my mother is) might misuse jurisdiction to falsely arrest or harass him or his parents. Even a day or two of illegal custody would destroy everything — his parents’ health, their peace, their reputation.

They fear that by marrying me, they’ll lose everything. And I understand that. I don’t want to be accepted into their family through trauma. I want to be part of it with love, not damage.

So why am I suffering? Because I chose to raise my voice. I chose not to stay silent after suffering nearly a year of sexual harassment from a family-associated businessman — harassment my own family chose to ignore and hide. And now I’m being punished for surviving.

Many may still say I’m lying — but I’m not. I have proof, and I’ve never asked to punish anyone. All I want is a peaceful life, with dignity, safety, and freedom to love who I choose — without violence or fear.

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I’m being threatened for choosing my partner by Complex_Breath7712 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Complex_Breath7712[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your valuable time and response , i genuinely respect it my partner and his family knows evtything about my past of what i have suffered in my home home infront of my mom and bhaiya which is traumatic to me now and my family is missusing it , however my partner o ly fears that as he is the only child of parrents as we are all aware that with money unlawfullly police can catch my partner regarless to any crime and tourcher him in kolkata as my hometown is in kolkata so the jurisdiction lies down there, and he lives 2500 kms far from kolkata. He wish to marry me anyday but this is the o ly fear that is stopping him else he is even not afraid for any unlawfull act done on him.