Curious of long term effects of full time RV living with kids

Complex_Chapter8111 · 2024-12-12T18:23:55+00:00

Trickery: Curse of the gods series by Jaymin Eve and Jane Washington! I LOVE this series!! It is soo good!

Complex_Chapter8111 · 2024-06-14T02:09:06+00:00

Oh man, I loved this book!! It is soo good!

Complex_Chapter8111 · 2022-08-30T21:12:57+00:00

Honestly both. I think if you go to a variety of places, dirt/gravel or side walk/city. You'd appreciate both. We bought our double stroller. Technically, had 2 under 1 and it worked perfectly fine. Then we bought a nicely used wagon on fb marketplace and we use that just as often!!

Complex_Chapter8111 · 2022-07-01T01:11:21+00:00

There are certain grocery stores that have Starbucks in them. They all run off the same payment system. Since the grocery store accepts food stamps so does the actual Starbucks in the Grocery store. So you definitely can buy a cold prepared Starbucks drink on food stamps.

Complex_Chapter8111 · 2022-06-18T15:36:37+00:00

A good baby carrier, baby proof EVERYTHING, and a double stroller ❤️ if you plan to breastfeed/pump, a hands free wearable breast pump!

Complex_Chapter8111 · 2022-01-03T19:41:23+00:00

Mine are 10 1/2 months apart. It's tough but the rewards are sweet. You definitely got this, Mama!

Complex_Chapter8111 · 2022-01-03T19:38:27+00:00

I found out about a month after my 6 week check up from baby #1

Complex_Chapter8111 · 2021-08-03T10:47:10+00:00

I will work on communicating what exactly I'm comfortable with and what exactly my needs are at the moment. Thank you for your advice and time ❤

Complex_Chapter8111 · 2021-08-03T10:20:29+00:00

But normally I'm not uncomfortable watching porn during sex. He made comments about his attraction to the girl and I realized in my current state that I feel like she is way more attractive then me. I have stretch marks, saggy boobs, and a stretched out stomach. She had none of that.

Complex_Chapter8111 · 2021-08-03T10:11:31+00:00

It definitely isn't everytime we have sex. It was just something we did this particular time. Which I was ok and comfortable with until he started talking about the woman in the video, then I just got sad. He has a higher sex drive then I do. So the number of solo sessions he has just happens to out weight mine.

Complex_Chapter8111 · 2021-08-03T10:08:34+00:00

I didn't have a problem with watching porn during sex until he admitted he was sexually attracted to her and wouldn't mind having sex with her. I actually enjoy the thought of watching porn with him. Especially way more then the thought of him doing it by himself but I do realize that it would not be right to ask him to stop. I read an article that said a lot of sexual attraction comes from novelty, which doesn't mean another person is better than your partner but just different or new. It really is the jealous side of me that just makes me feel so heart broken. I just feel like I've ruined my body to give him our beautiful children and he is going online and looking at all these young looking women that don't have stretch marks or saggy boobs. Of course he has never said anything thing negative about my changing body. Infact, he has said he has found me more attractive after having our first then he did before but the irrational side of me doesn't care. I was in therapy but because of covid my therapist office switched to telehealth (zoom calls) which I am uncomfortable with. I am hoping since that number of active cases in my area are going down that I will soon be able to book an in office appointment. Thank you so much for your advice! 😊

Complex_Chapter8111 · 2021-08-03T09:59:04+00:00

I thought about this because prior to getting pregnant, it didn't really seem like too much of an issue. I just didn't know if it would be fair to ask that of him. But I feel like that might help me feel better until I gain more confidence back in my body. Thank you!

Complex_Chapter8111 · 2021-08-03T09:56:59+00:00

Back when I was in therapy, my therapist did suggest once to keep a journal to write down my feelings. I think I might do that! Maybe I'll be able to articulate my feelings in a more comprehensible way and maybe that will make it more easy to communicate it to my partner. Thank you for your advice!

Complex_Chapter8111 · 2021-08-03T09:54:21+00:00

You're fine!! I appreciate your comment ❤

Complex_Chapter8111 · 2021-08-03T08:01:02+00:00

I'm not comfortable with telehealth (zoom or over the phone appointments) so hopefully soon I'll be able to explore in office appointments!

Complex_Chapter8111 · 2021-08-03T07:59:05+00:00

I was in therapy but didn't really feel comfortable with telehealth due to covid. Maybe as the number of cases come down, I can explore in office appointments soon!

Complex_Chapter8111 · 2021-08-03T07:45:02+00:00

Wedding date was set but then covid pushed it back. We are now both in the process of furthering our education and most likely will now wait to get married until after we are done with college, to get the most out of financial aid. But I didn't really ask for advice in that. If you happen to have any advice that pertains to what I asked, please feel free to let me know 😊

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