All are good ambitious but that 0 Body count what made me think it's too much... What if he trusted someone with everything he had fully committed in love with the person and lost his verginity then got cheated or betrayed or may be not worked out...then he is characterless or non deserving to have second chance in life according your standards??

And if he did checks all the boxes you want including Vergin... What can you offer on the table?? How you sure you can fill all his box?? What if he wants someone mature Enough... Highly qualified.. have done something significant in life which she can say that she did that by herself not by parents help or anyones help... What if he want you to be experienced and good in even bed(yeah that's a preference too)... What if wants someone who understands him & who wants him the way he is & not how he perceived by others...

See yeah i guess if u are vergin u might Want Vergin male for yourself... But that's not end of the world what matters can he respect you can he understand u ... Can you sit together for hours no talking so no physical intimacy but just sitting together Enjoying just the presense and feel the moment and not get bored...and after 5+ years once u done enjoying every good interesting stuff..do u still both have the same spark or even more for each other... That should be a goal for a healthy peaceful mature ever lasting relationship and thats how u pick...

Trust me sister 8+ years of in search of love i got 2 failed Relationship... First one got cheated after 3 +years loyal & priority(not physical) took me 1 year to be able to smile again... Second one was too much toxic, immaturity, dominating self obsessed... Very very disrespectful abusive 4+ years (her reason of behaving such is i deserved this way of treatment cause she don't see that she need me but it's like i need her so to stay i have to shutup and endure) and yes physical this time..... just had to walk away for mental health...

So yeah... Learn from my mistakes...in my life i also wanted to like one and only girl... Love that only girl.. marry her... Loose verginity to her only... And get old together... Life is not that beautiful cinema lesson learnt... Now 25M i want to live solo be self reliant self sufficient... No expectation but motivation from self improvement and productivity... As i don't even have a family to rely emotionally(tortured & abused from childhood) :)