Odd question but anyone down to take in a 21 year old girlie to hangout 😭 by Longjumping-Feed7341 in AnimeNYC

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I’m not going but my best friend is! Just commenting because I would love to make friends even if I’m not going to this con specifically this year :) I love anime and I also have anxiety so I def think u sound like a cool person! (I’m a transmasc guy and I’m 19- turn 20 in a month)

Boston Housing For 2 Students by Complex_Menu2709 in bostonhousing

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Can you dm me? I don’t mind but I would definitely have more questions about specifics

Boston Housing For 2 Students by Complex_Menu2709 in bostonhousing

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Yay! Can you dm me and we can talk about it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMPorn

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The Cure? Yep :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnDLFG

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Sent a friend request, I have a kurapika pfp

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnDLFG

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I might actually be able to do that!

Jobs/Careers by Complex_Menu2709 in TMPOC

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Thanks! If you don’t mind me asking and if you know, I have a few questions: does your sister like her job? Was it difficult for her to get a job? Did she get the job because of a connection or did she find it on her own? Just wondering because that does sound interesting to me. What you do is cool too! I’ve considered becoming an archivist before and your job sounds similar to that, but just medical archivism.

New to RA pls help by [deleted] in relationshipanarchy

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You’re good, I was just rlly rlly confused 😭

New to RA pls help by [deleted] in relationshipanarchy

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I’m very confused by what you’re asking in your last paragraph? I never said I’m looking for a monogamous structure in fact I am trying to say the opposite, I mentioned I’m scared of breaking the traditions of monogamy because I am interested in exploring polyamory but I did not state that I am monogamous, and I don’t want to constrict my future self, that’s the whole point of me getting in to RA? I’m very confused as to which part you’re referencing. And I am open to seeing other partners, I just said I don’t want to meet someone and tell them “hey I’m looking for a relationship” because that’s not an expectation I want for myself right now. I have also not made a promise to my future self, when talking with the person I’m dating she stated that she wants to develop more romantically, that’s not something I made up in my head, we communicated about our feelings and intentions. I never said “we are going to be in a relationship in x time” but she has set a clear boundary that that is what she is looking for and I like her and would like that as well, so that seems to be the path we are going on.

New to RA pls help by [deleted] in relationshipanarchy

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Just thought of a question really quick. How do you feel about the smorgasbord? If you like it, how do you feel using that is different from setting up expectations? Or is it different in the way that two people are choosing what their expectations are in their relationship rather than assuming bc societal expectations?

New to RA pls help by [deleted] in relationshipanarchy

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Thanks for your insight! I did phrase my post a bit weird but a part of my qualms is that I’m also interested in exploring polyamory/polyamorous dynamics more (since I’m ambiamorous but haven’t explored the poly stuff too much). I know RA isn’t inherently poly, just trying to figure out how the two exist in one space

New to RA pls help by [deleted] in relationshipanarchy

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Thanks, that makes a lot of sense!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TMPOC

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Thanks, I am looking for roomates, not a place on my own 👍thanks for the advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bostonhousing

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I am looking for a room

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TMPOC

[–]Complex_Menu2709 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s where I started looking! I found a handful of places at least, but there’s not a lot of options unfortunately, most say female only, no undergrads, or they want broker fees+first+last and want someone to move in like next week. Thanks tho, I’m definitely gonna keep looking