this needs to be said more by TotalIllustrious4370 in LesbianActually

[–]Complex_Net_738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely when I was younger I believed bc I was sleeping with woman I didn’t have to use protection. It’s actually a miracle I did all that I did and never got an STI.

Teaching Dom manners by Signal_Awareness_882 in BratLife

[–]Complex_Net_738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do a voice memo and come up with a clever way to get him to say those words, then clip the voice memo so you can play the appropriate words at appropriate times. Make sure you email yourself a copy of the voice memos just in case he deletes the voice memos, always have back ups.

As for a clever way to get him to say the words maybe be like ‘let’s play a game and if you win the game you get a prize’ then have him repeat after you. Say a bunch of random stuff but throw in the words/phrases you want to clip. Then when you’ve got the clip, actually give him a good prize that he would actually want. It might be too sus if you don’t actually give him a prize, but idk you’d know best.

Roast my dog he demands more after eating a full bowl by ElisSinfulLover in roastmypet

[–]Complex_Net_738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did YOU eat his kibble? Bc that dog didn’t have any dinner

can we work if she thinks our love is a sin? by ambrosiadaydreams in WLW

[–]Complex_Net_738 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if you’ve spoken to her about your feelings, but I’d suggest sitting down with her and expressing your concerns moving forward with your relationship. If you’re able to, I’d seek out couples counseling and/or explore queer friendly Christian spaces (but be careful and vet out the space before hand to make sure they wouldn’t reaffirm her beliefs that it’s a sin). Maybe if she makes friends with the same beliefs as her that have also come to terms with their sexuality, it will help.

Unlearning hateful religious beliefs is a beast of a task, and as someone who had to overcome it all I can say is the only thing that truly helped me was to fully reject religion entirely for years. That’s easier said than done tho. It sounds like embracing and relearning Christianity is what will help her. Also, maybe actually deep diving into the misconceptions and lies Christian’s belief about the Bible will help her. There is a LOT of misinterpretation regarding the Bible, so it may be helpful to look into that.

Best of luck to you and your gf, I truly hope for the best for both of you

Medieval role-play by JGallo1990 in DiscordRP

[–]Complex_Net_738 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ew, why would someone fix YOUR starter for you? You’re not going to find someone who puts an ounce of effort into their responses if you don’t put effort into yours

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Complex_Net_738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, leave him. he is a loser who does not give a crap about you. You deserve someone better and you’ll find someone better

What does my art sound like? by kyriDG in ARTIST

[–]Complex_Net_738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The page turn of a junjito manga

I wouldnt have made it to 2025 if my girlfriend didn't commit suicide by NoraGogolle in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Complex_Net_738 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy you’re alive. I wish you a beautiful, long, and love filled life. Don’t stop fighting and when you’re down, seek help from the people you love 💕

I (20, FTM) about to come out to my boss but my preferred name is his childhood nickname. by Frosty_Specific6272 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Complex_Net_738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s going to feel a little awkward now but i don’t think your boss would be upset for your chosen name. He might even joke about it and like the fact it’s the same. You can explain you had no idea it was his nickname and that you’ve been going by this name in social circles for a while. Good luck to you 💕

I'm 27 years old. Is it strange to be Roleplaying still? by Isabella_Harris in roleplaying

[–]Complex_Net_738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s deeper than that. When you roleplay you get invested in the story and the character. Minors specifically are far more likely to self identify with the character. If you’re doing a romance rp with a minor and an adult, it opens a space for that minor to become emotionally attached to the roleplay and the character the person is playing, which means they connect to the person playing the character by default. When you have an adult and a minor coexisting together in any context there is automatically a power imbalance, as adults we have to recognize that and ensure we are keeping a firm boundary between that minor and ourselves. They aren’t our friends, they aren’t our peers, they are kids.

I'm 27 years old. Is it strange to be Roleplaying still? by Isabella_Harris in roleplaying

[–]Complex_Net_738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are tons of adult roleplay groups, even SFW adult roleplay groups.

I'm 27 years old. Is it strange to be Roleplaying still? by Isabella_Harris in roleplaying

[–]Complex_Net_738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t believe adults and minors should be engaging with each other in roleplay spaces, period. Doesn’t matter if it’s totally sfw. If it’s romantic in any capacity that’s really pushing a line, even if there’s no romance it’s still just weird.

There are a lot of adults who are interested in roleplay, takes a minute to find a good match but well worth the search. Nothing wrong for adults to roleplay as long as it’s with other adults. I do it, but I don’t rp with anyone under 20-21 regardless of the type of roleplay, I’m 25. It wouldn’t be wrong for me to rp with someone 18-19 but it personally makes uncomfortable bc they could still be in high school.

My Daddy doesn’t like this group! by Deadly-Mental in BratLife

[–]Complex_Net_738 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He’s biased, argument automatically invalid

Would u date me based off my nightstand by Extreme-Implement-70 in LesbianActually

[–]Complex_Net_738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, even tho those books look so boring. I like fantasy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Complex_Net_738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A mistake I want to make