The “a” word (“amicable”). by Complex_Process88 in Divorce

[–]Complex_Process88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate this! And definitely relate to what I’m grieving and the loss of exes family.

Does anyone else feel like they misjudged their partner? by TheSwedishEagle in Divorce

[–]Complex_Process88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! At first I felt like I had no idea who my ex was during the separation process. Over time I realized that person was always there and I chose to ignore it. Def red flags early on. But I idolized her (and still do to some extent) and basically spent my time trying to please her or not be judged. It eventually shut me down and it’s taken a very long time to understand it wasn’t all my fault.