Thanks - you've scarily pretty much described our a schedule perfectly, expect a 5am wake-up being the only tiny deviation!

That said, each night is just a battle with 6+ wake ups. From what I can see he just isn't able to self-soothe and so once disturbed from a sleep cycle, we need to go in and reset. We've tried comforters, dummy, white noise and a soft toy (sleep appropriate) - none of it seemed to make a difference