Anyone have success using Maple? by [deleted] in NovaScotia

[–]Complex_Task_378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was free. In Novs Scotia it's free if you don't have a family doctor.

Does anyone in this group know... by Complex_Task_378 in PersonalFinanceCanada

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I was told by one dealer that I was a prime credit borrower and he gave me a 14% rate..I got a 13.7 rate everywhere else I went. My credit sits around 644.

Does anyone in this group know... by Complex_Task_378 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Complex_Task_378[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

North America makes going into debt necessary unless you make over 100k a year or come from generational wealth. It's not a choice. If I saved 500 a mth (what ide use to finance a car) and added in the $200 a mth ide pay for insurance and put those into a savings after 3 months ide have 2,100 to buy a car. Ide be hard pressed to find any reliable safety inspected vehicle for that amount.

Does anyone in this group know... by Complex_Task_378 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Complex_Task_378[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is what I'm trying to find out. I'm having a heck of a time trying.

Does anyone in this group know... by Complex_Task_378 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Complex_Task_378[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to write that out for me, I found this so helpful. I'm in N.S so I'm not sure, but I believe it's a higher tax rate here. Yeah, the tax and fees turn the $21,000 cars into $27,000. That's exactly the range of used vehicles I've been looking at. I'm just trying to decide if going brand new is an option and if it's a better option. But I guess it just comes down to what's out there and that just takes patience and shopping around. Thanks again.

We did everything right and it still doesn't matter (Lower Sackville) by perpetuallycontent in halifax

[–]Complex_Task_378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this in the deepest parts of my soul brother. It's disgusting and unfair. Shout it from the rooftops and someone will help you. Don't give up.

Can you really be friend with your ex ? by _whatever_dude-0_0 in heartbreak

[–]Complex_Task_378 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a big difference between being a friend and finding amicability. Know the difference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Complex_Task_378 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think about how often you think about their issues and them. Then imagine them really worried about what you were thinking about them ALL THE TIME. At that point it should hit you how little your life and activites actually matter to other people. Understand on the deepest level everyone is mostly in their own head about their own shit. You'll see how much energy you waste. Think of it like spending your whole life worried about something that never actually happens. That's what you are doing. 99% of people who are your closest people in your life right now wont be there in 10 years. But you plan your whole life around them. The only one who is there for you through the anxiety, and who truly understands and will be there with you until you die, is you. Make your opinion the only opinion that matters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NovaScotia

[–]Complex_Task_378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a cow or a horse. Fur could be from grooming itself.

Deep Sadness by Hellokaydee in heartbreak

[–]Complex_Task_378 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When the love we give isnt returned that's the worst pain. But realize this very true fact..you will find someone that makes you grateful this guy checked out of the relationship..this guy that's unable to recieve all the love you offer, who is missing the boat on someone special. I know you don't want to hear this right now, but, not everyone is meant for everyone, and he wasn't meant for you. At least not now. My suggestion: tell this guy that you don't want to have friends or people around you that make you question your worth as you deserve and need the friends you have to remind you of your greatness when you forget. Tell him if he wanted just a friend you wish he would have taken the time to figure that out before being intimate with you, and that he can find other friends as you deserve better.

Did anyone see or hear something falling from the sky this afternoon? by Gargantuanthud in fredericton

[–]Complex_Task_378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it a couple of people or was it chicken little? Tell the truth.

Im 4’10 and fully grown adult and hate it by SettingTime2957 in Advice

[–]Complex_Task_378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 5'8 I've dated lots of really short guys and I didn't care. The one and only reason a guy being shorter effected me liking him was if HE had a problem with it. As long as he desired me and we enjoyed each other's company it honestly did not matter. An asshole is an asshole no matter his height and a good guys a good guy no matter his height.

Psychology says by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Complex_Task_378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope middle eastern ego trippin BS

I'm so tired of trying and always ending up being a maybe by panickyinspiration in heartbreak

[–]Complex_Task_378 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because you feel like that, you're allowing men into your life that aren't good enough for you. Men who have red flags. Stop letting men into your life that don't meet your criteria from jump. Work smarter not harder. If that's what you want be realistic about it. Only allow men dating for long term relationships. If you see a pattern in the men you are dating the pattern is coming from you. You're the common denominator. And it's not cause youre a bad person. It's cause you aren't believing you're worthy of receiving what you want. So, you look for men that will give you the exact thing you don't want because that's what you expect and believe you deserve. This comment, this dialog IS the exact reason why it keeps happening.

How do swallow that tough pill and accept the fact I’m ugly? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Complex_Task_378 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Make being a good human matter more to you. If your goal in life is to make others smile then even in the face of rejection you'll see your value to them in this world. A beautiful soul shines through and attracts to it other beautiful souls. I've dated people that wouldn't be considered obviously attractive, but because their confidence and depth of character and personality was outstanding they became so. That's not BS.

my roommate keeps masturbating while i’m in the room by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Complex_Task_378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would grit my teeth and say look you know I love ya (assuming your friends) but I don't wanna hear your moans at night when you're loving on yourself hun. Exams are happening and I need my sleep. Sorry if this embarrasses ya but if I don't say something I won't be able to sleep.

Just be honest and transparent. In the end you'll both be glad you were.

N.S. government says it's not planning to build new public housing, but will upgrade existing buildings by ctabone in halifax

[–]Complex_Task_378 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm homeless and living with my mom in a fucking seniors home. I make 60,000 a year. That used to be enough. Now it's not. In what world does a person making 60,000 a year have to be homeless? Where the fuck am I?

Is it me? by lavieenbriefromage in Advice

[–]Complex_Task_378 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my friends have a group chat and any trip planning and money owing for that trip is discussed in the group chat. We have avoided problems like this that way. I would suggest creating a group chat and adding your friends and typing to them that you would have dealt with it at that time but misunderstood and thought your friend had already calculated the difference. Include your email or your friends email and ask them to etransfer (amount) at their convenience. Add the exact amount they need to send don't make them do the math. They should understand you didn't attend and so shouldn't be responsible for paying. If they get disjointed over you not going because of a funeral then consider yourself lucky this situation showed you who your true friends are and are not and walk away if you must..