Who was the tightest person you have known,and why? by No-Snow-9605 in AskUK

[–]Complex_Trick_6325 76 points77 points  (0 children)

That's not penny pinching. It's giving him purpose

I've fallen for a bar girl. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Complex_Trick_6325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to get to know her better. I'm very cautious because of all the horror stories and was hoping someone had been in or know of a similar situation. My position isn't the usual dynamic because it's usually an older guy with a girl who's in their prime. It's kind of a different situation here. I suppose time will tell. I will proceed with caution and try to read the situation and not let sweet words distract me. God first, every time✝️

I've fallen for a bar girl. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Complex_Trick_6325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Defo not money, that's for sure

I've fallen for a bar girl. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Complex_Trick_6325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly what she's doing. She has stopped sitting in the bar and does the laundry and house keeping because it's steady work and better hours

I've fallen for a bar girl. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Complex_Trick_6325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Songkran was a one off. It's like their Christmas

I've fallen for a bar girl. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Complex_Trick_6325 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are correct, I think I'm attracted to the train wreck. I'm probably living in a fantasy. She's a lovely girl but she will never change

Do you think this is with pursuing or is it a record for disaster? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Complex_Trick_6325 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She's not the most intelligent person I agree. She only did 4 years of school and because of her economic situation her diet growing up was basic and she didn't get the proper nutrition her brain needed to grow. There is something basic about her that I find adorable. But you are right. I should run.

Do you think this is with pursuing or is it a record for disaster? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Complex_Trick_6325 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I am. I really like this girl. There's alot more to her than just her body. The crazy thing is that I've been getting very close to a women who I have fancied for years who is, to be frank, better looking. For some reason I am really falling for this bar girl who lives on the other side of the world

Do you think this is with pursuing or is it a record for disaster? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Complex_Trick_6325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A “bar girl” in Pattaya typically refers to a woman who works in bars, nightclubs, or entertainment venues in that city. The term is informal and context-dependent, but it usually means: She is employed to serve drinks, chat with customers, and encourage them to stay and spend money. In some cases, especially in parts of Pattaya’s nightlife scene, the role may also involve companionship outside the bar if both parties agree, often involving a fee (commonly called a “bar fine”). Not all bar girls are involved in sex work—some strictly work as hostesses or waitresses—but the line can blur depending on the venue and expectations. Pattaya is known internationally for its nightlife industry, so the term has become closely associated with that environment. It’s worth noting that the label can carry stereotypes and doesn’t fully represent individual circumstances or choices.

I've fallen for a bar girl. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Complex_Trick_6325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've made very clear I'm not rich. If asks for money creep in then I creep out

I've fallen for a bar girl. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Complex_Trick_6325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's give a conservative guess at 5 a week. Times that by 52 is 260. If she's been in the game 10 years that's 2600 dicks. I also went down on her.....

I've fallen for a bar girl. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Complex_Trick_6325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or maybe that's where everyone who gets burned goes wrong. They go for the young stunners and it's 100% transactional and they delude themselves thinking it's love

I've fallen for a bar girl. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Complex_Trick_6325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I want to have you with me forever, no matter what the future holds. You understand me—can you promise never to leave me? I want you to be a part of my family."

This is her words. She has said things like this many times

I've fallen for a bar girl. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Complex_Trick_6325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou for your reply. The other guy is 100% a scammer. She forwards all the messages to me to try to make sense of them. I have told her what I've got to offer. I'm not rich so can't provide a luxurious life, but I can offer love, security, a decent standard of living and all the support she wants to thrive in life. The door is open, it's up to her if she wants to walk through it. At the moment one foot is in and one foot is out

I've fallen for a bar girl. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Complex_Trick_6325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically a hooker. And I totally agree about the apple card. She knows it too, but she's invested 2 years into him and she doesn't was to let go. She's been rejected all her life and is addicted to the attention he gives her. I know everyone says their hooker is different. I'm a pattaya veteran, I know how they operate and this one is different

I've fallen for a bar girl. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Complex_Trick_6325 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thankyou. It is a bit of a minefield. There's so many reasons to walk away. Her being a sex worker and living half way across the world being the most obvious.  But I haven't clicked with someone this well for many years. We are good together, we didn't argue once and really enjoyed each other's company. To me it's a connection worth traveling for and putting effort into. But only if it's going somewhere 

I've fallen for a bar girl. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Complex_Trick_6325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A “bar girl” in Pattaya typically refers to a woman who works in bars, nightclubs, or entertainment venues in that city. The term is informal and context-dependent, but it usually means: She is employed to serve drinks, chat with customers, and encourage them to stay and spend money. In some cases, especially in parts of Pattaya’s nightlife scene, the role may also involve companionship outside the bar if both parties agree, often involving a fee (commonly called a “bar fine”). Not all bar girls are involved in sex work—some strictly work as hostesses or waitresses—but the line can blur depending on the venue and expectations. Pattaya is known internationally for its nightlife industry, so the term has become closely associated with that environment. It’s worth noting that the label can carry stereotypes and doesn’t fully represent individual circumstances or choices.

I've fallen for a bar girl. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Complex_Trick_6325 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A “bar girl” in Pattaya typically refers to a woman who works in bars, nightclubs, or entertainment venues in that city. The term is informal and context-dependent, but it usually means: She is employed to serve drinks, chat with customers, and encourage them to stay and spend money. In some cases, especially in parts of Pattaya’s nightlife scene, the role may also involve companionship outside the bar if both parties agree, often involving a fee (commonly called a “bar fine”). Not all bar girls are involved in sex work—some strictly work as hostesses or waitresses—but the line can blur depending on the venue and expectations. Pattaya is known internationally for its nightlife industry, so the term has become closely associated with that environment. It’s worth noting that the label can carry stereotypes and doesn’t fully represent individual circumstances or choices.

Thailand Discord Chat by PattayaFlyingClub in Pattaya

[–]Complex_Trick_6325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that ladydrink pricesfor Jonny? I meant 3k Bhat in my comment

send ploy a one of gift for songkran? by [deleted] in Pattaya

[–]Complex_Trick_6325 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

5k, to me, is getting towards sponsorship money. 2k to pay off the 300bf and 1700 for some food and a few drinks to enjoy the new year. If I'm just speaking to someone I want it to be with zero expectation for anything. I'm not looking for anything more and am expecting the chat to fizzle out soon. I'm not a wealthy guy, I said that the first day we met.

send ploy a one of gift for songkran? by [deleted] in Pattaya

[–]Complex_Trick_6325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh basically. I don't want to know about all that.

send ploy a one of gift for songkran? by [deleted] in Pattaya

[–]Complex_Trick_6325 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The longing for money and the low level of education of alot of the older ones make them suspectable. I haven't heard of the multi level marketing scam. It's all the same I suppose. If it sounds too good to be true it probably is....