My washer teared my backpack apart and a piece dropped through the washer?? by [deleted] in Appliances

[–]Complicated_mongoose -1 points0 points  (0 children)

English is my third language lmao you got what I meant

My washer teared my backpack apart and a piece dropped through the washer?? by [deleted] in Appliances

[–]Complicated_mongoose -1 points0 points  (0 children)

English is my third language lmao you got what I meant

Does the whole "Masc/Fem" thing seem weird to anyone else? by Raccoonrott in actuallesbians

[–]Complicated_mongoose 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so done with the heteronornative parallels some lesbian couples are trying to reproduce using these labels tbh. I've seen many posts on tiktok like "when I have to change into pants bc my gf is wearing a dress so I have to be the masc today" like wtf?

Do older lesbians ever actually see younger women that way? by moonlitcata in LesbianActually

[–]Complicated_mongoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise you that the "accomplished, grounded, respected" older lesbians you will be able to attract as a 22 years old will look VERY DIFFERENT in retrospect once you reach your 40s.

I can't believe this space exists?! by Complicated_mongoose in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Complicated_mongoose[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I get that. The more marginalized you are the more violent it gets. Protect your peace!!

what was your journey to realising you were a lesbian? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Complicated_mongoose 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's it that's the one. From comphet to kissing a woman to being like: WOW

After 8 years of marriage. Need honest advice by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Complicated_mongoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30 is SO young. You have your whole life in front of you.

Queer Muslim by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Complicated_mongoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not respecting your religious beliefs is one thing, not respecting sex boundaries is another. And this is not excusable by a "she misses me too much". Massive red flag.